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What should i do? Boy problems...

I had a boyfriend...but he dumped me..then we got back together...then i dumped him for another guy. That guy rejected me tho...but we were friends still. He talked behind my baack and called me a whore.... Im so lost....please help?!?!

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mankilla444

So you dumped him for a guy who doesn't even like you?! Hmm

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No he said he liked me....
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obviously he lied
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Dont go out with a guy that calls you names.. If you do, you must not have a strong self esteem.

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Thx. :)
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you sort of created this situation yourself, i mean seriously, you should have just not gotten back into a relationship with your ex, he is an ex for a reason, but dumping him for the next guy, thats cold, and that the guy you dumped him for rejected you, is not suprising, because he thought you were just using him, but that does not make it acceptable to call you names, best to find someone new all together, and rid yourself of this drama

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No offense, but you sound like a terrible person. I'd do some damage control. Try to come off as a saint in the next few month, and try to help people out.

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You dumped him because you liked another guy and he didn't like you so you want to get back together? Well if I were that guy I'd feel horrible knowing that I was the back up but then again he dumped you too. If he knew why you dumped him you need to apolagize but if not you could say it was a mistake. Good luck! Hope this helps!

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Ignore-_-

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I don't think either guy is a good option.

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Stay away from him. He is not your friend. It sounds like he thinks it is fine to dump someone but not be dumped. He is a loser and just walk away.

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Leave both of them alone. Never dump a guy,thinking the grass is greener on the other side, because its usually not.

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Or/and has lots of weeds!
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My advice to you is find new ground and plant your feet. Get rid of both guys the damage is done. Take the time to find someone right, and you have a life span to do that. There is no rush.

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Take a break from dating right now. Don't just date someone for the heck of it or to play with their emotions, which I'm sure you weren't trying to do but it happened. I know you're probly hurt and all, but I think you should try being single for a while. Find someone who will truly love you for you, and who you can truly love back too. :)

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Stay single. You sound like a girl that shouldn't be in a relationship. First of all does it even make sense to dump a guy for another one that disses you!!? You can't get back together! And you shouldn't have gotten back together in the first place! Take a break jeez girl it's not that hard to be single and simple. learn from your mistakes as well as others.

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I say back up from the boys and stay single.
Dont worry about what people say about you. it'll stop soon.

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I would say try and get back together with the guy you broke up with. And all these people answering theese need to stop calling you a "terrible person" because your not :)

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Thanks c: but the guy thay i broke up with didnt really like me. He used me and i really thought he was gonna change...the other guy said he liked me and i should breakup with the guy and go out with him cause he would treat me better.....then he rejected me. He said that he didnt like me anymore. and now everybody thinks im a whore. He lied to people about what happened. i dont wanna go out with the last guy again....hes just a ton of bs. I trusted the guy that rejected me. He was the only one that cared about me. Until i figured out he was talking behind my back. I have one friend. But im not even sure shes my friend now. People are lying about me and spreading rumors. I cant just forget about them because i feel bad. I feel terible. I dont know why i did this. people told me things about them....but i didnt listen....im so stupid..
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