I think most people are looking for the wrong thing out of love and they are looking too hard and have unrealistic expectations. Many people are looking for someone to "fulfill"them. You need to be complete on your own instead of looking for another person to complete you. Real love isn't about getting something for yourself, it is about giving of yourself. When you look too hard you give off an air of desperation. This is unattractive and it sets you up to be used. Setting your standards unrealistically high eliminates a lot of people that you might be happy with. This doesn't mean you have to have to settle for a loser just that you need to be realistic. We only have imperfect humans to pick from.
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Ever heard the saying when you were a little girl, that "if they're mean to you...then they like you".?? That's why all of these sweet girls go for jerks...i know that i probably sound like a hypocrite, but i know i looked in all the wrong places...look out of town or maybe even state and you never know, you just might find the man or woman of your dreams. :)
Hi spicy(*^_^*). I think it's never easy to find TRUE love but we all are eager to find it so we tend to rush into something. Honestly I believe we take the love we have for granted and many of us choose to settle for what we think is better than nothing or better than working for the real deal.