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What to do I saw my boyfriend kissing another girl in alley.

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Tell him "we are never, ever, ever getting back together"

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sing tht to him in public :P
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that's funny
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Thnx :) I guess...
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no prob
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did you "know he was trouble?"
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Break up with him.

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yeah but i still love him
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Well he obviously doesn't love you. Why waste your time?
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i dont know thinking of me breaking up makes me just cry even worse
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it too hard for me
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you know i really need a new bf if hes like tht dont you think?
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thnx anyways ur sweet tho tht u cn be so nice and gave tht kind of advice to a girl like me i hope ur gf is happy abt u
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Lol I don't have a girlfriend, but no problem. But seriously, you're better off finding someone who will treat you right. It may hurt for now, but he'll keep hurting you again and again if you stay with him.
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im defo not staying with him hes a jurk and plus we are in same country lol
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You And me? You live in Scotland?
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yeA in glasgow
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Oh wow. o_o what a coincidence. XD we live at the same place. XD
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hihihihi :p i didnt found anyone on here before from same place nw gere we go
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Haha I just thought this place was an American site that I just happened to wander into. XD
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hahahaha not really im here too :p
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i had same feeling like no ones here from same place a i am
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Lol yeah. XD Well, at least now I found someone. :P
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yea XD :p it soo cool to find someone from same place
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it makes me now feell jumpy like a raisn
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Haha definitely. ^_^ it's awesome. :D
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do u have hotmail? it my id here didiswagger@hotmail.com
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No, but I have a gmail, though. :D
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lol u not sleepy if u dont mind me asking i dont sleep much
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ok cool
i have also yahoo bt not got a gmail urghh!!! coz we cld do a instant messaging i hv my windows live messenger for hotmail
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lol i keep on checking messages if u texted back lol i do that since i remember
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i really wanna know more about you hihihihi you sound totally buzz
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what you wanna do ?
im really bored cant sleep
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Oh no, I'm

t sleepy at at all.
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Ago I can't type with this iPhone.@
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Anyhow. As I was trying to say. No, I'm not tired. -.- and can't I still email you through gmail?
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hihihihi im not tired too ant what u cant i dont get u now a lil bit :/
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you can email me if you like i dont mind bt it better to text me on yahoo didiswagger@yahoo.com
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how old are you?
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??
takes ages to txt
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Sorry, I keep coming back and forth because I'm watching a movie. Sorry. Anyhow, I'm 19.
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aww ok cool im younger thn you hihi im 18 :) and is it you on tht pic ?
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Yes, that's me. :)
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aww you look ciute on it )
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Thank you. ^_^
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welcome. what you watching? what type a film horror etc?
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hmm?
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It's called Wrong Turn 5.
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ok wht kind ?
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It's a horror. :)
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ahh id quickly wanted to hide
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Haha why? O.o
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im usually scared
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Ah. I'm assuming you don't like horror movies, then?
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i do bt in scary moments i hide hahah i love abt ghosts
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well when i was 5 i ended up hiding in the bath under towels it was soo funny i even fell asleep in the bath
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Lol I did something similar to that when I was younger when I watched the movie "IT".
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hahaha i fell asleep in bath today i was relaxing and just fell asleep untill my dad kicked the door and said when u going out i slept for an hour in the bath lol my ddad saw me sleeping wakes me up im like ahhh get out here a lil privacy please! lol good stuff tho
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Lol wow. That never happened to me, though. XD thankfully.
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hahahah well tho i had a relaxing bath my back is less sore now and my neck
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Well that's good, then.
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yeah bt didnt helped with my bum cheeks lol
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im curious to know you like f2f
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f2f?
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face to face
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im just i dont know ended up chatting to you felt better talked and feel even more better i never felt like tht it just soo amazing and you are amazing
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Oh okay. XD
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:) really it a wweird feeling i never felt before
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lol gt a bit hungry
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Haha I'll take that as a good thing. And I'm hungry... o_o
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yea t is ihihii. i wanna munch hmmm either a kebab or a macdonalds
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happymeal not a sad meal one :p my mate when we were in school used to be howling at sad meals sitting in maths laughing at sad meals lol
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Pfft... Math can make anything sad. Lolz I really want something spicy. >_<
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hahahah im spicy want me lol XD
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Why not? Lol ;)
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hahahah here you go :p
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Lol okay. XD
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XD LOL no problem
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you can have me anytime hahaha
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Awwww yay! ^_^
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:) hihihihiihi
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wow we are talking and talking and we didnt realised the tim im alrite still not sleepy
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time dosnt bother me hahaha
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it windy outside as hell
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right im going off to sleep now ill text u in the afternoon or something like tht i am tired now my back now is more sore night xxx
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Agh the weather does suck. Anyhow, good night. ^_^
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hey xxx im just awake sitting in bed with a bowl of chocolate flakes yummy!
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what u up to?
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Hey, and nothing much now. How about you?
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hey sorry been off i was doing some stuff just resting now
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Show him who's boss. Let him have it!

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but i still love him
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Gloomyblue
He cheated on you with your cousin I would break up with him ...
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i love him tho
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Break. Up. With. That. Piece. Of. Sh!t.
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It's up to you ... But what he did was wrong
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:i wish
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i know
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Whatr u gonna do?
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break up and say we are never ever getting back together :D
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Haha
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wait a sec.... im just going onto my msn and dump him for good yeah!!! ill stay strong if there will be a case hold me or else hell have no eyes this kitty can scratch and bite
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You go girl !!! (:
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What she said!^
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yeah i just done it yass finally so he can now go to his mommy and cry
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Matthew, why do you have a lizard as ur profile picture?
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@didiswagger. Lol
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he said ' well she was better in bed than you being a good kisser' tho i never went to bed with him im nt tht stupid
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wow i feel great guys you are brilliant thanks for toyr support now let go and partay!!! im single and ready to rock :p
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Lol, feel.free now?
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yea thanks so much
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:D feels good to help
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:)

you all rock
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Wow he's a jerk !! I'm happy for you (; it's party time lol
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thnks yeah lets partay pmsl
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Are you okay though ? Your not sad :(
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nah
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Ok
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if u still love him then tell him, but that doesnt mean you should forgive him right away let him know that he needs to respect you and that the girl he was kissing is gonna end up in the hospital if you see him kissing her or any other girl again, but let me just tell u, u could do way better than a guy who cheating on u, with a guy who respects you

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thanks
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did u know the girl he was kissing
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yes i do
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oh is she your friend and even if shes not confront her and ask her why she could do that to u, unless she didnt know u had a boyfriend
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no shes not my friend shes my cousin she knew i had a bf a nd before she said shell do anything to make me lose him
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oh thats just wrong fight fire with fire and u seem like a nice girl in all but still let her know that she cant do that to u and......dont break up with him cause if u do thats letting her win, just give him a little hard time
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im totally lost my mom just ssupports her
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thats even worse dont give up and how old r u??
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im 18 were together over 4 yrs now our aniversary is on 25th this month
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and he knew everything abt my cousin
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awwwwwwwww.........make him give u something nice, but i shouldnt really be answering your question im 12 and yes i know i broke the rules on this and plusive never had a boyfriend im too ugly well thats what the guys tell me
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tht alrite any help will do and u may hear u are ugly from boyz bt they are just nonsence tht agee tho my mom always say if ur ugly at young age ull be beautifll whn ur n adult so dont worry ull find the right one
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Scream we are never ever ever getting back together in public

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Ask him why he did it. I he try's to make something up say you will leave him and have him tell you the real story.

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id wish
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Break up with him!

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i did now im free
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Good for you!
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break up and move on.

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i dumped tht m-f he is just a stupid jerk
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Walk up to him, slap him, and walk away. Don't cry though. You will make a fool out of yourself in front if the other girl.

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thnx bt shes my cousin
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Oh, we'll then I'd slap her too!!
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hes dumped now
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I would of biped

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i like ur answer BTW ur cute. ;)
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Lol y thank you hun(;
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np.
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Ur a cutie
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awwwww thanx!!!! ;)
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1 word revenge ! You could have fun with this... Don't tell him you know let him be the one to tell you. But if he doesn't its splitsville but make sure it's really what you saw

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Just say"you little nasty i saw with this other girl were over"

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Kiss his best friend in front of him.

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umm... wrong! lol ;))
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Awww, thanks my bud
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Confront him in public to teach him his lesson. ;) Then, break up with him!

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Break up with him and make sure the next day you look amazing and and just walk around and act like you are the stuff! And then flirt with other guys! Take extra care of yourself and pay no attention to him. And do not astablish any contact!! If he contacts you ask begs for you back laugh in his face and tell him all about your new man! (Make him up if you have to but make it realistic, hes older, stronger, his names Tyler *make up a last name just use a friends from FB* lol and just make him sound perfect and add in cute moments youve had with this new boo like him kissing you on the nose and bringing you flowers and stuff pull stuff from the notebook if you have too lol! And act like your old relationship ment nothing and forget about him!:) goodluck, punch him in balls for me! I hate cheaters!

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Tell him you deserve someone better.

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ask him first

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Take it easy and slow ask him if he did it and if he denies it then dump him.

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Make him jealous

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fxxk him... move on

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break up with him give him words and tell the girl off if she new you

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The fact that you saw him is very heartbreaking...its life honey..we get into relationships hoping for the best and sometimes things just happen for a reason...just confront him about it and it doesnt matter if he denies it or not...just know that he doesnt deserve you and let him know he lost something special and just move on..there are lots of other guys out there that you can get and that can cherish you...

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You need to break up with him, cause obviously if he cheated, he doesn`t like you as much as he did when you too first started dating. If he begs for forgiveness, do NOT give it to him. My best pal always says 'Once he cheats on you, he/she always gonna cheat on you.'

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revenge, dump and say WE ARE NEVER EVER EVER GETTING BACK TOGETHER to him but so it in a flash mob :) he he he

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You need to ask him who that girl was and why he was kissing her. You two should also break up, and you should tell him that no boyfriend would do that..

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Drop him like a rock.

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You should ask him if he did it on purpose or if it was a mistake and if you believe him when he says it was a mistake you should stay together but if not break up with him.

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ditch him badly !

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Wt to do?!?!?......break up with him.......sing him the song that yzeelyf said...

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cuss him out and make sure you have the last word

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it depends. why was he kissing? was he kissing because he wanted to or did it look like he was forced to do it. talk to him about it

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Scream we are never ever ever getting back together in public or at school.

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Get rid of his sorry butt! If he doesn't want you he doesn't deserve you! No exceptions!

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screw him! If he wants to see other people, then he is NOT the father ;p

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I am WAY too independent and self-assured to put up with that,. Sorry but it is true.
First off, I would MAKE sure I knew he had done what he had done.
Then, I would confront him.
Unless he gives you the best reason in the world, you are DONE.
Because I would like to think you are like me and you put your own well-being before a guy (that you do not full out love).

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cheating is cheating, if someone does it... im Done.

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leave him

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the best revenge for a girl who stole your man is to let her keep him cause no real man gets stolen. :) ahhhh favorite quote

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Call him up and say that your breaking up with him and if he starts agrueing go on youtube and play we are never ever ever getting back together...or at least that's what I'd do...

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ok there is a lot of good answers and mine may not be that good but iv had this happen to me before it hurt me i didnt see them but he told me and she was my best friend she was like my sister that's how close we were but i broke up with him and tol her what i thought it wasnt to pretty

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