of course not! i don't even think it's legal at your age! dont do it! It completely changes you! there's no going back! don't you want to tell the person you're going to spend the rest of your life with that you waited? DON'T DO IT! you're not going to listen when i say this, but whoever it is that is trying to get you to do it, doesn't love you as much as you think and you're not going to be spending the rest of your lives together. DON'T
It is not weird at all. My daughter was still scared when she was 18...she is married now and very happy.....don't worry about it.....the scared feelings will fall away when you meet the right person :)
It means yr not ready yet . It's your choice always. Don't rush into it. NEVER do anything that intimate by force. Be comfortable w/ yr own body first. He or she can't please u if u don't know what pleases u.
Its ok to be scared. The first time I did it, it hurt so bad that I cried, and it took like half asn hour to even get it in very far. I didn't enjoy sex for roughly the first whole year I did it, because my vagina just did not want to get used to it, so it was a bit invasive.
Just do it when you have someone who you know will be really gentle, because for all the pain and slowness, I didn't bleed at all. It was my partners first time also, and he was absolutely just a perfect partner, now that I look back on it. Just ensure you keep sufficiently lubed, and make sure to talk to him, and let him know at what pace you are going. I was 16 also when this happenned, so don't settle. You deserve the best care through this first time especially, and there will be boys/men out there who are glad to comply and make you feel as safe and comfortable as possible.
No, it's not weird. There are so many STD's that lay dormant in people's bodies & hide. Even testing can't show all STD's you can potentially acquire. It's ok to be scared. Condoms can't protect you from all STD's. Sperm lives 72 hours inside, & 24 hours outside your body... the risk of getting pregnant is higher than you think. Just know all about the risks before you DECIDE to give yourself to someone. Not to mention, girls tend to fall on love faster & longer than boys. You may think you're in love now, but there's a lot more to it!