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Is it weird that I'm 16 and afraid of s3x?

I'm scared it's going to hurt.

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You're only 16.

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yeah!

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no its not!
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OOPS!! I MEANT NO! lol sorry!
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Why did you call her a liar? because you know her? or 13 year olds don't have sex? Just curious...
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13 year olds don't have sex... and also when i was 13 i hadn't even had my period yet... so it would have hurt like hell!!
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Actually 13 year olds do have se x . Sad but true. And a lot of girls get thier period at 11 and 12. I was just curious why - and I appreciate that you told me your reasons. Thanks.
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no probem... and also, i didn't have it until i was 17 and i still hurt!
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I wish the kids I know would have waited... And yeah. The first few times aren't the greatest
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No, it's not wierd.

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mankilla444

okay an idea just popped in my head and this might sound crazy but dont do it then!

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No, It is not weird.

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Course not! Read, learn, educate yourself FIRST.

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Thank you for saying that, marriage before s3x!
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I didn't say that. I would NEVER buy a car without taking it for a test drive first. That would be silly! I always go to the store and try out the mattress BEFORE I buy one. I always take a sip from the soup before I serve it, to make sure it tastes good.
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Sorry, that comment was to Kipple not Rose
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i figured i was just making a point.
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Wowwww haha
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No, that is not weird at all. It is very common to be scared you first time. People tell me it hurts your first time, but not that bad.

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Nope

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Not at all. Everyone moves at their own pace. :)

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No when u get older u'll want to let ur boyfriend because u love him and so u hav to.Plus im 13 and i hav already done it even i didn't protect it and it felt great!!!

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You had sex when you're thirteen? Wooooow smh at this generation.
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Nothing to brag about hun.... Use protection or you will soon get pregnant or some disease.
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13? No protection? Smh.
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That's not a good thing. You're WAY too young!
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Wow..
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liar!
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i don't believe this. I really don't WANT to believe that she's telling the truth
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of course not! i don't even think it's legal at your age! dont do it! It completely changes you! there's no going back! don't you want to tell the person you're going to spend the rest of your life with that you waited? DON'T DO IT! you're not going to listen when i say this, but whoever it is that is trying to get you to do it, doesn't love you as much as you think and you're not going to be spending the rest of your lives together. DON'T

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nobody asked me to im just very self conscious in wat i look like, n i dnt want anybody to see me naked. I screamed the first time i noticed i was getting underarm hair how stupid>!!!!!!
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If you're self conscience why is your profile pic you in a bikini? What does underarms hair have to do with s3x?
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im a part time model. read my profile
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Your a teen, so dont even worry about it yet.

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Nooo. My ex gf was scared too and she was 21.

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your virtue is the ultimate gift you could give your husband. save it for him.
I have a 16 yr daughter. I'll rocksalt the SOB who is NOT her husband.

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lol ur funny
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I suppose the 'facts of life' are a little short on truth in your house compared to mine! Barefoot and pregnant and all that!
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ChicagoNeko88

No no no. You are still very young so it is understandable you are scared. Do rush into sex, you will regret it.

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You mean "don't"
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Minji

Nope, I'm 19 and afraid of it too :-/

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No.

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I hope not because I'm the same way.

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It is not weird at all. My daughter was still scared when she was 18...she is married now and very happy.....don't worry about it.....the scared feelings will fall away when you meet the right person :)

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It means yr not ready yet . It's your choice always. Don't rush into it. NEVER do anything that intimate by force. Be comfortable w/ yr own body first. He or she can't please u if u don't know what pleases u.

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Its ok to be scared. The first time I did it, it hurt so bad that I cried, and it took like half asn hour to even get it in very far. I didn't enjoy sex for roughly the first whole year I did it, because my vagina just did not want to get used to it, so it was a bit invasive.

Just do it when you have someone who you know will be really gentle, because for all the pain and slowness, I didn't bleed at all. It was my partners first time also, and he was absolutely just a perfect partner, now that I look back on it. Just ensure you keep sufficiently lubed, and make sure to talk to him, and let him know at what pace you are going. I was 16 also when this happenned, so don't settle. You deserve the best care through this first time especially, and there will be boys/men out there who are glad to comply and make you feel as safe and comfortable as possible.

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No, not weird, especially if you're a girl. If your a male, that might be a little unusual, but not necessarily weird.

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It is a little weird that you went through the trouble of typing a "3" in place of an "e" for the word "sex". If you did it to be funny, haha cute. If you did that because you just can't bring yourself for religious or other neurotic reasons to even type out the word "sex" never mind mentioning it out loud audibly, then my friend, I'm of the belief you DO have some problems, which could even be on the potentially serious side. But I'm not a certified shrink, (although I have been known to frequent them myself) so I could be wrong.
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Given that new picture you have provided, I might be a little afraid YOU will hurt ME.
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Not to be insulting but that is a pretty big gun you have for a right arm. :D
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Well now, much better.
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No, it's not weird. There are so many STD's that lay dormant in people's bodies & hide. Even testing can't show all STD's you can potentially acquire. It's ok to be scared. Condoms can't protect you from all STD's. Sperm lives 72 hours inside, & 24 hours outside your body... the risk of getting pregnant is higher than you think. Just know all about the risks before you DECIDE to give yourself to someone. Not to mention, girls tend to fall on love faster & longer than boys. You may think you're in love now, but there's a lot more to it!

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No way! Do it when YOU are ready

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not at all. be yourself, it might take time but no peer presure.

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Incredubella

It's even more weird that you can't spell sex. So don't do anything that goes against your concience

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People are not made to have sex at sixteen mate! Don't even consider it!

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nah bro im scared

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if it means u r scared tht means u r not ready wait till the right moment

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no it's a stessful activity your minds first needs to adjust

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Yes. Unless you're Christian. Or pretty much any other religion.

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