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if you don't know what I'm talking about go read my bio. if you don't want to here is a brief description. I'm 17 and pregnant. I regret it 10000000% but idk if I want to keep it. I kind of want to but kind of dont. if I give it up for adoption I will want it back but I'm only 17 so handling school and a baby will be hard. I thought I was ready. you probably all hate me now. but will you still help me?!?!?!!?!?!!

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Hey, hey calm down there. Ok? There are high schools that do allow pregnant teenager girls to take care
Of there baby while they're in the school and it won't affect their education at all!! My mom thinks it's stupid but I think it's nice! :) And I read your bio btw and I don't hate you just because your atheist! I'm Muslim but as long as you respect me I respect you. Most of my friends are atheist and they're hilarious! I find atheist people more fun and less nagging about religion! :) I like being Muslim but being around my friends makes me feel calm. :) And let me tell you, you are freaking beautiful DON'T let ONE person say that your not because they're just jealous. And just because your 17 and pregnant doesn't mean that everyone hates you. I certainly don't just because your pregnant. We all make mistakes wether it's getting pregnant, or failing your exam and getting a 99% instead of a 100% this just shows that not all of us are perfect and we all make mistakes! :) And things will get better, your just having one of those really down moments in your life but I can promise you that if you give birth to that baby girl she'll be a pain in the butt but you'll later on come to realize that she just made you stronger each and everyday and that she gave you a reason to live. I certainly would've done suicide till my friends slapped some sense into me and I realized that I was living for them. Not my parents since they're actually my problem. But I can assure you that everything will turn out ok. If you ever need to talk to someone even tho I might not know you all that well I'm willing to listen and just be there even if I'm not physically there. Sorry for the big paragraph! :P

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thanks i definitely keeping this baby because of you
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Lol, that's good! :D and I'm serious if you ever need someone to talk to I'm always available no matter what the time is. :)
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okay:) what should i name it?!
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This might sound corny but I've been there when my step sister was naming her new born and right when she first held her she knew right away on what to name her baby. And trust me it'll come to you once you hold your's too :)
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And have the doctors told you yet around what time you'll be in labour?
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yeah next week
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Well good luck! :) Hopefully everything will be fine!! <3
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Wow your both amazing:)
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Lol, thanks! :)
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LizzAMB123
Hey Morgz87, You shouldn't think everyone hates you! I think you should keep your baby. I don't think babies are mistakes I think they are gifts! I bet you will be a great mommy! :)
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Lizzamb123 that's very nice of you;)
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LizzAMB123
Thank you, Its what I really think! :)
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And very true:)
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LizzAMB123
Yep! :)
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So how have you bin?:)
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LizzAMB123
Good, and you?
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See Morgz! No one hates you!! And whoever said that to ever make you think or feel that way will regret it the day they see you being a mother, seeing how amazing you treat your daughter! :) and they will regret every single word they ever said to hurt you.
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Gloomyblue

Yes keep it

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Gloomyblue
Your parents can't help you ?
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i live alone. they died in a fire last year
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Gloomyblue
I'm sorry :/
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Yeah
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Yes! Keep it. If you dont want it / think you will be able to take care of it put it up for adoption. Dont do abortion! It can affect your pregnancies in the future, from what ive heard :)! Hope you make the right decision xoxo

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I wouldn't DREAM of getting an abortion
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I think you should abort it. School and life will be really difficult with a son-daughter.

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I wouldn't DREAM of doing that. i am keeping it.
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There are high schools that offer pregnant teenage girls, or teenage girls who are already mothers to still
Study at the school while taking care of their child. And it won't affect their education at all. From what I know every city, county or where ever you live there should be at least ONE high school that offers that program in the school. Since it's a must that every school board has to do. I have one high school across from my house and they offer it. And there haven't been anyone pregnant their from what I know but they keep the programs there just in case.
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Ohh, well, you could give the baby up for adoption, and when you're ready to handle a child, take him/her back? Him/her might not want to though, after they grew up with a different family.
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Not to be rude, but in the description she said that if she gives birth to the baby she wouldn't want to give it up for adoption. And I can't blame her since the baby would by then have an emotional bond connected to her. :)
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I guess she answered her own question then. She'll be a mom thats 17.
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LizzAMB123
There is nothing wrong with being 17, and a mom. Plus she can't abort it she to far along.
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I think you should keep the baby. Even though it will be tough to balance school and a baby, family members and others can help you or you can always just give up your baby for adoption. aborting it would just be to hard. I wish you the best of luck, I hope I helped.

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No I don't hate you there is a reason for everything. So keep the baby the best things in life are the hard things and the things you have to work for.so I hope you make the right choice and best wishes to you and the baby:)

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LizzAMB123
You thought what I said was nice? This was very nice of you, and its a motivator! :)
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Yeah what you said was very nice of you:) and I know some other ppl who have not saved there baby and they have told me it was biggest mistake they have ever done so I don't want ppl to give up there baby I guess.:)
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LizzAMB123
I know I'm a little young for this, but if I got pregant I couldn't abort my baby or put it up for adoption. Both of them would kill me if I did that, and I know it will.
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Yeah I couldn't eather if I was a father of a baby It kill me too.
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LizzAMB123
I guess it depends on what the couple want, but if he says no I'm still keep my baby. :) That's just my opinion.
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Good I'm proud of you:)
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LizzAMB123
Haha Thanks, but why? Lol
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Because I have friends that have just because the bf said to give or kill the baby because the guy is to lazy to take care of something that they helped make.
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Just cause I know som ppl who have gave up the baby because the boyfriend didn't want to keep the baby. That's why.;)
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LizzAMB123
Oh okay. I see! :)
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Yeah:)
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LizzAMB123
Its only cause I dont listen to anyone when it comes to that.
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That's good:) I know that's why I don't have sex I'm whaiting intell I'm in love and ready for a baby:)
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That's good I would help any one who has that happen to them:)
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LizzAMB123
Haha Mhm. :P
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I don't know what mhm means I'm sorry.:(
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LizzAMB123
Oh no dont be sorry! Your fine lol. No sad faces please???
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Ok :::::::::))))))))))))))) how's that?:)
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LizzAMB123
A lot better! :D
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Haha good so what's you doing?:)
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Calm down im sure most of us dont hate you. How far along are you? and are your parents and the father of the baby around to help? all i have to say is DONT get an abortion that baby deserves a chance at life it didnt say bring me into this world and it is a life now so if i were you id have the baby and maybe after he or she comes you'll have a different mindset about things. i dont know you and i dont know your story. but you had sex and now you have a baby...hopefully the babys dad is around to help and that you have friends and family there to help you too. balancing school and a baby is probably going to be rough but you can probably think about finishing classes online...so you can be home with your baby...Good luck! I hope everything works out.

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both my parents died I a fire and the baby's dad is long gone. I'm giving birth next week and still don't know what to do. I'm leaning towards keeping it.
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