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What should you tell a boy that told you that he is dating my boyfriend but he really isn't

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RedRose

You can deal with him later, right now you need to go to your boyfriend and give him the chance to fess up. You don't want to outright accuse him but make sure to get the answer from him. Common mistake: you don't want to believe that he is cheating on you with a guy so you might give him an out. DONT DO THAT. get an honest answer from him that you are satisfied with. I have to say though, you two may have some issues if you think it could be true that hes is gay and cheating. neither of those things equal a happily ever after....

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Okay first of al i am going to straighten things out tomorrow when i see him at lunch. Second of all I DO NOT BELIEVE that he is cheating on me with another boy.
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great. if you think he might be interested in boys thats also something u need to talk about as well.
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Okay i am going to ask him today at lunch i am not going to come straight out with it though.
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Minji

Tell him to Screw off.

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I already told him that he should break up with my boyr riend instead of me and my boyfriend breaking up. But i do not even think it is ture i think they were just messing with me.
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Does your boyfriend like guys too?
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No he doesn't. Well at least i don't think he does. I am hoping he doesn't though.
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Tell who to screw off my boyfriend or the boy.
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"Tell me the truth." look him in the eyes, "Are you gay, straight, or bisexual? and are you cheating on me with a man?"
You have to be serious when you say it, cause this is a serious matter.

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I would never do that to my boyfriend though he would not do that to me so i will not do it to him cause that could ruin our relationship and i do not want that to happen.
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Well, I guess my relationship is weird, because i ask my boyfriend stuff and he answers. Then about 5-10 minutes afterwards he asks me why I asked and I tell him why. Usually I just be wondering stuff and then I get really curious, so I give in and ask.
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Yeah but i do not want to make him upset and i am going to straighten things out tomorrow when i see my boyfriend at lunch.
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The other guy may be lying and just wants your boyfriend. I don't know.
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I don't think he wants my boyfriend i think he just wants us to breakup but either way i will not let it happen.
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Yeah he might want that too, but either way it sounds like your not going to give him up and that is good.
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Thanks and you got that right i am not going to give him up especially since we have officially been dating for three weeks now.
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TwilightGirl

Wait.... what? A guy told you he was dating your boyfriend?

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Yeah that is what he told me at lunch today and i was just like you better break up with him or else there will be problems between you and me but i did not say that to my boyfriend i told that to the boy that told me that he was dating my boyr riend i think he was just oicking on me though i do not think he was really meaning it cause he was laughing after wards.
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I think he's just messing with you... Get your boyfriend to clear things up with him
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That is what i am going to do tomorrow at lunch.
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He said it was just a joke that they have.
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It means the guy is gay, and he wants your boyfriend. You don't have to tell him anything, if you're boyfriend is secure about his se.xuality there should be no trouble.

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Wel he is not going to get my boyfriend because i will not allow that to happen to my boyfriend now because we have been dating for almost three weeks now tomorrow it will be three weeks exact.
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Well I hate to say it, but if your boyfriend turns out to be gay there's really nothing you can do about it... You guys could still be friends, but gay guys just aren't attracted to women. Some of them date women just to cover it up... :/ I hope that's not the case for you. You seem like a very committed young lady, and he's lucky to have you.
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He is not going to turn out gay i can promise you that much right now.
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ok im not sure if u wrote ur Q wrong but i think that he is a word that i wont risk to say. it rhymes with say and hay and bay etc.

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You mean gay yes i know what you mean.
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I said it.
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ok just tell him to back off
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Tell who my boyfriend or the boy that is dating my boyfriend.
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the boy
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Okay but i am going to have my boyfriend straighten things out before i do that.
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sounds like a good idea right
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yes
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Well i straightened it out with my boyfriend and he said it was just a joke that they have but it is not really true.
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well then thats good news too you right?
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Yes it is excellent news to me i am so happy to have straightened that out between him and i.
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well then i hope your happy with your boyfriend. :)
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I am happy with my boyfriend.
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You should tell him that him lying isn't ok.... But, what kind of person makes that up.... Your boyfriend might have something important he needs to tell you.

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He already told me that it is not true (my boyfriend of course)
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tell him how it is but try not to hurt him n make sure ur facts r all straight u no?

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It is not true because i asked my boyfriend and he said it was just a joke that they have.
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