You seem to be angry and are looking for someone to take it out on. Your approach to others will always throw up a wall between you and the people you are asking for help or trying to help. Your anger and haste to judge people makes you not credible to answer or help others. You seem to be aggressive toward others and people are hesitant to trust or follow someone who gives advise angrily and disrespectfully ( I.e. the green card) and there are enough bad words out there without seeing any more on ask. If you don't take control of your attitude it will control you... And you will regret it. Please get help and deal with your anger elsewhere. Come back to us when you have had time to cool off. Leave the smartalecky you behind and bring out that beautiful, kind, mature lady you know you can be. When the pleasant you emerges, just see how many followers you get.
When I followed you back, I trusted that you were looking for meaningful connections. The true purpose of following is to find people you enjoy, and with whom you want to share this experience. Following is not a popularity contest. There are no trophies awarded for "Most Followed." No one thanks the academy. Please look for connections, not numbers.