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My mom found out I wasn't eating & she wants to talk about it. What do I say?

Ok so, my best friend was worried that I would pass out due to lack of eating. So she went to the guidance counselor although I told her not to tell anyone. So after talking to the guidance counselor, she called my mom.
So my mom told me that she wanted to talk about it. But I kept pushing it back because I wanted it to be a private conversation; Plus, I don't even really want to talk about it.
I don't even know why I started not eating in the first place, I just didn't eat.
So I don't know what to say to her…
I do eat though, just small servings of dinner so nobody gets suspicious

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Start eating. Unless you want attention. Stop eating and loved ones will be concerned. It's a simple cause and effect situation. Only you can prevent wild fires.
You know people love you.
Now move on.
they'll send you to the doctor if that's what you want

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Minji

Sorry, mom I'll eat a sandwich. Its really bad for your health, you need to eat!

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Tell her why u r not eating my uncle asked why i am not eating and i told him that i was pregnant and he said oh wanna talk

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Just say you haven't felt the urge to eat.

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This person is obviously starving herself.
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I know, I am trying to provide whatever help I can (no matter how slight). I have never been through a situation like this and I do not have much advice.
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Ask her to go to McDonalds to get you a Big Mac. When she gets suspicios ask what in the world she is talking about.

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Tell her you're not hungry!

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Say u havent been hungry latly

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Eat while she's talking to you about it.

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Just say I'm sorry I just havent felt like eating I'm not doing this just to worry anyone I'll try to do better I'm sorry

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There could be a medical reason that may need to be checked out. I have a stomach disorder and I have problems eating due to digestion and I have to take meds to make me eat. I think you need to talk to your mother about it. No matter why you stopped mothers do understand and love their kids and want them to be healthy.

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Listen to her. You need to eat

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Well you should eat! I never really had a eating disorder or anything just say look im sorry i didnt eat! But you really should eat its not good for you

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I do eat, small servings of dinner
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I agree! Go eat!!! You will regret it! If you don't believe me go to YouTube and look up people's stories about being anorexic it's sad

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rustyboilerz

Stop eating long enough, and even you won't care any more, you'll be dead. Talk to your mother, and please start eating again. Don't take the path my niece took, rest her tormented soul.

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I do eat, it's just small servings of dinner
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One thing I've learned in my life, and it's this, be happy in the skin you're in. Don't let public opinion sway you to change your body for someones perceived "ideals ". My niece didn't listen, and paid the ultimate price for her model thin body. What a loss we suffered, she had so much to give.
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Wow, I'm so sorry for your loss.
That's so sad, I almost cryed; But I did tear up.
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if you dont want to eat, its okay, happens to me all the time, all my relatives always talk about how thin I am and how I need to eat more its okay if you are not hungry, but its a different story if you are purposely starving yourself

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You shouldnt starve yourself its not healthy try to eat at least three solid meals a day you need protien and all that other good stuff! if you do that then i think youll be ok!:) Good luck

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You look fine! Trust me

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You don't even know what I look like…
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I was thinking the same thing smarthamster!!!!!!
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Your Mom obviously cares about you. If she didn't, she would sit quietly and allow you to foolishly starve yourself to death. What to tell her? Simple, tell her plainly why you are being so self-destructive, if you even know. Wise up, people care about you, so should you.

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In the last line of your info you said you eat a little at dinner "so no one gets suspicious." suspicious of what? You are anorexic aren't you? And you're trying to hide it, aren't you? You need help! Your friend, the counselor, and your mom are all wiser than you are and care more about you than you do for yourself. Your reasoning is way out of sync with health and real life. If you go on much further your mind will be so warped from lack of nourishment you'll need hospitalization and rehab to come to your senses. Put on your big girl pantyhose and talk to your mom. Let her help you make plans to help yourself. We need you!

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That has happend to me, but it wasn't to get skinny or anything, I just didn't wanna eat. Good luck and get back to eating like me :)

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eat girl

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