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How do you feel about a girl with a fiery Character?

Boyfriend and I got into an argument cause he keeps thinking I'm too strong minded. His feelings have changed about me because he thinks I'm too open-minded. He says he's afraid of me. I'm about to give up on this relationship especially cause it's long distance. if he can't accept me for who I am, then someone else will appreciate me. i accept him for his flaws but why cant he? What do you guys think? we've been together for 8 months. it's been 3 months since we've been distance.

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I would leave. I am strong-willed and open-minded. I am also fair minded and give people a chance to have their say. If someone has a problem with that, it is their problem not mine. Anyone who tries to restrict how and what you feel and think is not someone you want to be in a relationship with. Move on and find someone who will appreciate you for the person you are. Everyone will be happier in the long run.

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Thanks cause that is exactly how I feel at this very moment.
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Your boyfriend is too weak-minded. Stay strong, girl:)

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Thanks. I agree. We are taking a break for now. Sad and it hurts but we both gotta think about what we really want out of this relationship. All I wanna do is cry right now. Thanks for your positive advice.
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He thinks you're too open minded in a LONG DISTANCE relationship? Sounds like things are only going to go south from here.

Most long distance partners do not last, and this could be a way that your boyfriend is trying to get out of it. He's blaming you for being unhappy in this relationship. Sometimes you just have to let go and move on, no matter how good things were before :(

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it all started when I made a sarcastic joke about him being a psychopath. And the only reason why I said it was he always jokes about him being one. That's what really pissed me off, he can't take a joke and everything is taken too heart. I'm optimistic and realistic while he's a perfectionist. we have very different personalities but still I accept him. The funny thing about this we are in our early 30s. he told me I'm too complicated and not easy to deal with and that he doesn't know me anymore. I'm still the same person ad he met me. he knew how I was. I'm fair and treat everybody equally bit he's says I'm too emotional. aren't we all supposed to express our feelings. I don't get it sometimes.
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Sounds like he is overly sensitive to me... Maybe you two aren't very compatible :( You accept him, but he won't accept YOU
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I agree. Maybe it's a cultural difference but we are both Asians. Just he was born in his native country and I was born in the US. Still I have always been in touch with my Asian spirit just have more Western thinking.
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Gotcha! Yeah, that makes sense.
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I think strong women are beautifully crafted by God

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aww so sweet
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