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I have a teacher crush. I'm 13 in 7th grade. He's 27. What should I do?

I really like him, and I think he might like me too....

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Stay away. Far away. Bad things will happen.

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Uh oh. Big no no stay away!

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If he likes you back, that's really creepy. Just imagine if you we're 27, why would you want to date someone half your age?

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mankilla444

i doubt he likes you

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Nah, age difference is too big.

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Get out of school!!! Now!!!

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Uh...Forget about it sweetheart

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Honestly, I doubt he likes you. Don't flirt with him, stay away from him... That's just weird. But most importantly move on!

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Get in there dawg

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Do nothing! No good can come from it

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Look for someone your own age. Also, if you two were to enter a relationship... Well 1) He'd lose his job if you two were found out and 2) his ass would be in jail. So, yeah, even if he did like you, pursuing the relationship would be nothing but trouble so, again, pursue someone around your own age.

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Try to hate him? Oh! And keep in mind that he is a whole decade and four years older than you. Thats 14 years over we are talking about here!

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Keep it to yourself !

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ok first what the hell are you thinking

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I'm sorry to say it but you need to get over that crush and fast. Get it out of your head that he might like you because it's a 14 year age difference, and it's also illegal. If you two start dating, he can be fired and sued, so I think you need to get out of his class and try anything and everything to keep your mind off of him. Trust me, boys your own age are most of the time much hotter than teachers. Plus he's probably already in a relationship.

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Sorry mate, He is too old, If he decides to abuse you, there is nothing you can do. He is more than twice your age so he could turn out to be a pedophile, a grown man would not normal have time for a teenager that's still going to school. I'm sorry mate, I don't think it's a wise move.

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Will you get a good grade out of this realtionship?

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It's not a relationship, I know nothing is going to happen, and I AM really trying not to like him.
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I was joking but just try your hardest to find someone else at least near your age to like instead
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dumb

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Forget about it!

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Sorry to break it to you but you are a little girl. He is a man. It is not uncommon for little girls to have crushes but if he did anything with you he would be a pervert and you would both end up hurt.

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Agree!
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So true!!
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Seduce him at school, I guarantee you will have all A's this year (;

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... Don't stand, don't stand so, don't stand so close to me ...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j75tJNYwWkY

... Inside her, there's longing,
this girl's an open page,
book marking, she's so close now,
this girl is half his age ...

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candybar

If you care at all about him, stay far, far away unless you want him to lose his career and face prison. He's probably just a nice teacher.

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Nice teachers who fool around with kids are REAL popular in prison! What's the matter with these kids???
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candybar
I'll never get it, Tony.
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Where did you get the idea that the teacher was fooling around with anybbody?
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Do nothing,the experience is normal,to act on it could be disastrous It will pass .

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You said it exactly as it is, a crush. You look up to this person because he is your teacher, a person in charge of teaching you. You on the other hand are a teen with raging hormones, keep your focus on those close to your on age. Look at this man for what he is, your teacher, and only your teacher. Bad things happen when you try to take things where they shouldn't go.

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trouble..... ;( peaches
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No no no. NO! You do nothing. You stay in his class, but you are strictly his student. Nothing else.

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This is what you have to look forward to. Ugh!
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dustee

AS EVERYONE HAS SAID LEAVE THIS MAN ALONE BEFORE YOU RUIN HIS LIFE AND CAREER...MoVE ON..LEAVE THIS MAN ALONE.

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I agree!!
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Forget about it ASAP and get a life with someone's who's job you will not effect and save yourself embarrassment at the same time by saying or doing something dumb.

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it won't work out currently but maybe when you graduate?

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He does not like you,if he did he wouldn't encourage you

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Don't even think about it. He would be fired if anyone found out. Also it's illegal for him to do anything with you since you're only 13. Everyone would think he's a pedophile and that you are weird to be with him. It will never end well.

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Wrong Feelings , You know ...Forget about these things, live your life...coz for this you may regret your whole life !!!

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Haha. Teacher crushes happen all the time ! Best not to do anything about it. Just leave it alone and eventually it'll pass. My friends have teacher crushes all the time. As long as it isn't an obsession.

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Whoa whoa whoa......he is 27 and ur 13 to him u are a underage and how do u think that he likes u .........sry but thatis never gonna happen and it is ok to think a teacher s cute......and u should do nothing ......nothing at all

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This is probably really hard for you, so don't treat it like it's nothing. Talk to someone, don't pursue, and change classes. He is not the man you want. Just like him in a great teacher kind of way. Find faults to keep you away. Just DO NOT PURSUE!!!!!!!!!! I'm sorry that you have to go through this, but stay strong girl:) Hope it all works out for the best:)

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yea stay away from him as far as possible

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ARIA! stay away from that pedo

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Why do you like him & why do you think he likes you back? Are you sure you don't just like him because he's much older than you or because he's kind to you? There used to be a teacher in my elementary school whom I wanted with a passion! He wasn't my teacher but still, he was an authority figure & way too old for me. He was really hot & sweet & I would have given anything for him to notice me or like me back. I used to cry most times after school because I knew deep down that he didn't like me, most likely never would, nothing would come out of that crush but me being crushed & that he probably never even knew of my existence. As hurtful as that time in my life was, I got over it & over him. Sometimes, you want someone so badly that you may even start believing & that they want you back when they don't. If your teacher does like you back in that sort of way, don't be flattered, be alarmed! Whether you like him or not is irrelevant; if he touches you inappropriately or tries to seduce you, it's wrong & you should tell someone you trust/can trust. If this crush is affecting your schoolwork, or your peace of mind, then you will either need to have a change of teacher, class or school.

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no

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I know what your feeling, I have been there too! BUT its a bad/horrible idea to stay there. Watch the movie "trust" and you might get a sense of what I am talking about. Its okay to have a crush but please ask someone your own age out instead. If your teacher likes you back things will get dangerous. Ever heard of the nickname Lolita? Its a name for a girl who has a love for older men (but worse). You can never date your teacher because 1) your parents will be 100% against it and 2) He CAN go to jail for it and lose his job. Its not your fault but even if the relationship was actually started its most likely he will try to keep it as physical relationship. My apologies but this is something quite a few people go through and it NEVER ends in a happy way. Walk away now before you become a toy. BTW I am 14 and I have been in a similar situation.

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Trust me, you do NOT wanna go there. If I were you, go for someone your own age--however immature they may seem.

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Remember that he will lose his job and could be arrested and you will never see him again if you have a relationship with him. Stay far far away.

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leave him and go for me

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You'll get over it eventually. Everyone has had a teacher crush at some point. It is definitely not something you act on, it's more of a gossip thing with your friends. "Hey Regina, who do you think the hottest teacher at school is?" "OMG tots Mr. Smith." "I know right?" done.

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oh god no stay away this is definitely heading in a pedophile direction!

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Oh great another teacher crush. solution Find a guy your age or one year older or younger that you like. It is way better than a teacher.

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he too old for you bruh ! that is how you catch a case .

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WTF!!! do nothing at all, he's too old for you

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Naskey13

Um, no. You don't want it to become that Half Nelson relationship.

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shannonmacri

It's normal to have a crush. I was in 7th grade when I had a huge crush on my female teacher. She was sexy as hell and had these nice legs. lmao. I got over it and you will also. Just don't act on your feelings! He's a male teacher and some men are pervs. lol

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nothing wrong with having a crush on a teacher... just dont expect anything to happen unless his a sicko

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Tanto, jump on him.

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No way too old. He could get into huge trouble for that!!!

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Well he is defiantly way too old for you but if you're crushing on him then there are already other girls crushing to, talk to your friends, you will soon find a new crush so dont worry.Your crushes will come and go, but try to not develop feelings for your teachers okay? If you do that and stick to guys who are remotely around your age then dont worry you'll be fine.

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nothing you should get over him because he is too old and he's your teacher smh

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Ask em out

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Think of him as an old school techer Boring,mean and hates everything.

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suck it up and move on i know the felling nothing good can come from that and good luck
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haven't you heard ALL those stories about the teachers and they're students! They are to help you...forget it, hes probably married with kids

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I'm nearly (less than two months) 16 and already engaged, of course the marriage will not be legal until I am 18... In Michigan the legal age of consent is 16 without relative age laws except if the person is in a position of power for instance a teacher or coach, of course my fiancee isn't and hes roughly 7 or 8 years my senior. Wait. Not for the teacher either, I agree that hes really old... ten years is my limit.
I do have a teacher I think is cute though and hes really nice, but hes 40 and I think of him like a big... really attractive friend who cares about me. lol saying brother'd feel weird.

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O_O what!!!!!!!!!!!

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lol !!! if u think he likes you back , u will know he is a pervert

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No. Just....just no

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That is against the law!!! Get a life and stay away.

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what the hell is ur problem? Stay in school...if you dont stay away...YOU and HIM is gonna end up somewhere you and him thought you'll never go... your only 13teen...read a book or something...BTW...why is your mind on a grown man anyway? sorry sweetheart...but...you dont even know what a crush is.
YOU ARE TOO YOUNG!!!! STAY AWAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

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