Look for someone your own age. Also, if you two were to enter a relationship... Well 1) He'd lose his job if you two were found out and 2) his ass would be in jail. So, yeah, even if he did like you, pursuing the relationship would be nothing but trouble so, again, pursue someone around your own age.
I'm sorry to say it but you need to get over that crush and fast. Get it out of your head that he might like you because it's a 14 year age difference, and it's also illegal. If you two start dating, he can be fired and sued, so I think you need to get out of his class and try anything and everything to keep your mind off of him. Trust me, boys your own age are most of the time much hotter than teachers. Plus he's probably already in a relationship.
Sorry mate, He is too old, If he decides to abuse you, there is nothing you can do. He is more than twice your age so he could turn out to be a pedophile, a grown man would not normal have time for a teenager that's still going to school. I'm sorry mate, I don't think it's a wise move.
Sorry to break it to you but you are a little girl. He is a man. It is not uncommon for little girls to have crushes but if he did anything with you he would be a pervert and you would both end up hurt.
You said it exactly as it is, a crush. You look up to this person because he is your teacher, a person in charge of teaching you. You on the other hand are a teen with raging hormones, keep your focus on those close to your on age. Look at this man for what he is, your teacher, and only your teacher. Bad things happen when you try to take things where they shouldn't go.
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Don't even think about it. He would be fired if anyone found out. Also it's illegal for him to do anything with you since you're only 13. Everyone would think he's a pedophile and that you are weird to be with him. It will never end well.
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Haha. Teacher crushes happen all the time ! Best not to do anything about it. Just leave it alone and eventually it'll pass. My friends have teacher crushes all the time. As long as it isn't an obsession.
Whoa whoa whoa......he is 27 and ur 13 to him u are a underage and how do u think that he likes u .........sry but thatis never gonna happen and it is ok to think a teacher s cute......and u should do nothing ......nothing at all
This is probably really hard for you, so don't treat it like it's nothing. Talk to someone, don't pursue, and change classes. He is not the man you want. Just like him in a great teacher kind of way. Find faults to keep you away. Just DO NOT PURSUE!!!!!!!!!! I'm sorry that you have to go through this, but stay strong girl:) Hope it all works out for the best:)
Why do you like him & why do you think he likes you back? Are you sure you don't just like him because he's much older than you or because he's kind to you? There used to be a teacher in my elementary school whom I wanted with a passion! He wasn't my teacher but still, he was an authority figure & way too old for me. He was really hot & sweet & I would have given anything for him to notice me or like me back. I used to cry most times after school because I knew deep down that he didn't like me, most likely never would, nothing would come out of that crush but me being crushed & that he probably never even knew of my existence. As hurtful as that time in my life was, I got over it & over him. Sometimes, you want someone so badly that you may even start believing & that they want you back when they don't. If your teacher does like you back in that sort of way, don't be flattered, be alarmed! Whether you like him or not is irrelevant; if he touches you inappropriately or tries to seduce you, it's wrong & you should tell someone you trust/can trust. If this crush is affecting your schoolwork, or your peace of mind, then you will either need to have a change of teacher, class or school.
I know what your feeling, I have been there too! BUT its a bad/horrible idea to stay there. Watch the movie "trust" and you might get a sense of what I am talking about. Its okay to have a crush but please ask someone your own age out instead. If your teacher likes you back things will get dangerous. Ever heard of the nickname Lolita? Its a name for a girl who has a love for older men (but worse). You can never date your teacher because 1) your parents will be 100% against it and 2) He CAN go to jail for it and lose his job. Its not your fault but even if the relationship was actually started its most likely he will try to keep it as physical relationship. My apologies but this is something quite a few people go through and it NEVER ends in a happy way. Walk away now before you become a toy. BTW I am 14 and I have been in a similar situation.
You'll get over it eventually. Everyone has had a teacher crush at some point. It is definitely not something you act on, it's more of a gossip thing with your friends. "Hey Regina, who do you think the hottest teacher at school is?" "OMG tots Mr. Smith." "I know right?" done.
It's normal to have a crush. I was in 7th grade when I had a huge crush on my female teacher. She was sexy as hell and had these nice legs. lmao. I got over it and you will also. Just don't act on your feelings! He's a male teacher and some men are pervs. lol
Well he is defiantly way too old for you but if you're crushing on him then there are already other girls crushing to, talk to your friends, you will soon find a new crush so dont worry.Your crushes will come and go, but try to not develop feelings for your teachers okay? If you do that and stick to guys who are remotely around your age then dont worry you'll be fine.
I'm nearly (less than two months) 16 and already engaged, of course the marriage will not be legal until I am 18... In Michigan the legal age of consent is 16 without relative age laws except if the person is in a position of power for instance a teacher or coach, of course my fiancee isn't and hes roughly 7 or 8 years my senior. Wait. Not for the teacher either, I agree that hes really old... ten years is my limit. I do have a teacher I think is cute though and hes really nice, but hes 40 and I think of him like a big... really attractive friend who cares about me. lol saying brother'd feel weird.
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what the hell is ur problem? Stay in school...if you dont stay away...YOU and HIM is gonna end up somewhere you and him thought you'll never go... your only 13teen...read a book or something...BTW...why is your mind on a grown man anyway? sorry sweetheart...but...you dont even know what a crush is. YOU ARE TOO YOUNG!!!! STAY AWAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1