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Why do i feel so neglected?

My fiance works more than12 hours a day, don't get me wrong I'm glad he has a job, but working these long hours n me not seeing him for days at a time is tearing me up. I miss being wit him, i don't have family here where we live, so maybe im just lonely or need to keep myself busy,,, ugh,,, any advice

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Why don't you plan a special activity for one night? The planning will give you something to think about and enjoy anticipating. Make sure he knows you're planning something special so he can be sure to be there for you!

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Get hobbies
Do activities
Work out
Learn something

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yea keepin myself busy, should help me stay focused, thanx
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Tell him and/or try to plan a trip/vacation or any activity to do together

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Since you fiance is always at work your really have nothing to do and you are always bored. Try getting some friends to hang out with, pick up a new hobby, or plan something to together with him.

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ugh ur soooo right, im always bored n i jus feel like my life is wasting away cuz all i do is lay around the house n watch tv.
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Why don't you get a job? What would happen to you if it didn't work out?
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Yeah, you should try getting a job. It could be anything. Like this one guy got a job at Michaels Arts and Crafts just so he could be around art things. This girl I know got a job at Petco, because she likes animals. Find something like and make it your thing.
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Hang with some of your friends! And ask him to take a sick day. Come to his job and surprise him. Have a fun night together??? (If you do that sort of thing) You could play a game or just tell him. If he works hours like that though you're going to have to face it, that's how it's going to be. You are marrying him and if you can't deal with his work hours maybe you shouldn't be marrying him.. You have to think about that sort of thing before you go off and marry people.

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Just find a new hobby, I'm pretty sure right now all you need is something to occupy your mind.

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