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My "Friend" Falls in love with every guy she meets. She met my crush and now she is madly in love with him. He told me he would date me but he doesnt wanna ruin the friendship. So me and him flirt. Then she replys with "No! Ryan wanna go out?" He says yes and tells me He said yes because He would feel rude saying no. she knew him for a few hours I known him for a couple months. I feel really jealous. What do I do?

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Sounds like your friend is a bit needy when it comes to attention , you need to talk to her .

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Well, it might be rude but you should tell your friend how you feel about him and find a way to work it out.

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RedRose

talk to him about it. if you two decided not to go out soon enough he will find another girl he likes and youll be sad and hurt. tell him you want to take the risk and go out with him.
talk to your friend. tell her you are hurt that she would date the guy she knows you like. tell her you know he likes you and your sorry but you are going to try things with him. good luck

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your friend should probably back off, especially when she knows you like him, try talking to her about it

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well sadly if both would do that, knowing how you feel, then neither are good for you. you will one day find someone worthy of your time And love. just be patient.

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Tell him direct that you want him and see what he thinks of you that way.

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Well he has a point to not ruin the friendship and tell ur friend or him that u are, that is what i did before

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You need a new 'friend' and a new guy. Then you need to spend time with a shrink trying to find out why you're hanging around 'friend' who steals your guy and a guy who goes along with it!

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You need to talk to your friend about her need to be in love. That is not normal, nor isn't healthy. You need to set some boundaries with her and if she doesn't stick with those boundaries you need to rethink the friendship.

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well i wouldn't get jealous. she's known him for what? a couple hours you said? you known him for what? a couple MONTHS!!!! hey. shes the one that should be jealous. you guys flirt. but hes super nice not to break you guys' friendship for you!!! thats adorable! she's just making a mess of you! confront her and tell her she needs to stop this habit. at least just stop the habit because she's gonna leave your friendship broken in two plus her heart is gonna get broken also.

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JustMeOnMars

First, she's not your friend, like you implied. And that guy was just letting you down easy. It's really his choice who he wants to go out with, just like you have your choice. It's not her fault he turned you down, but it was her choice to pick him over you. Another thing is that he may just be going out with her because he thinks she'll do stuff with him. Don't worry about those two, you can do better.

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My "Friend" did that before. She is pretty a lot of guys like her.I was talking to her about my crushThen when she met him she started flirting with him. Then a couple months later we were talking about it and she was like "he is ugly" I told me she liked one of my guy friends. I was like " I used to have the biggest crush on him in 4 th grade" And then she didn't talk to me for like a couple days. I was like what the heck "I didn't say anything when you were flirting with my crush. Now your getting all mad because I told you I liked your crush in 4th grade like 5 years ago."

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I was pissed
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Maybe you and your "Friend" can patch it up by talking about it
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Ussaly I would say 'if he wants to go out with her let him' but seeing that she falls in love with every guy thats a differnt story.
She sounds a little needy (NO A LOT) and I think you shoudl talk with both of them (in private from eachother). Esecially your friend since she knew you liked him. She needs to stop it. Also ask the guy if he really means what he says he doesnt want to go out decasue he doesn't want to ruin the friendship, or if he really doesnt like you (I'm sorry if this offends you but it could be true). Becasue he says no to you then after knowing this boy-crazy-girl for an hour says yes to dating thats really crazy!

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Becasue I think doing what he did would also ruin your friendship and that your friend really isn't a good friend
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