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beinghuman: 1 year ago

I had intercourse with a girl now she is pregnant, what should I do?

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str8loco760: 1 year ago via iPhone

Man up... If your old enough to have sex then own up ... Get a job too

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miller485: 1 year ago

stay with the girl and raise the child

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echi36: 1 year ago

if she can't get an abortion, you have a responsibility to help raise the child.

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tkdgirl4: 1 year ago

Dont do abortion. If anything give the kid up fir adoption

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lazylexi: 1 year ago via iPhone

If this her 1st having sex then yes you are most likely the father;-) raise the baby and be a good dad!

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MyzD: 1 year ago via Android

wait. if she is going to have the baby get a dna test after the birth of the child. if she aborts it then no worries. you need to wear protection.

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chino11-13: 1 year ago via iPhone | Last edited at 2:15PM on 10/3/2011

Be responsible evry child deserves a father. yea get a DNA test if ur not cirtain it's urs but I strongly say do not encourage abortion that's just wrong nobody took ur life as a fetus or hers so just do the right thing be a good father

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Johnnyboy7781: 1 year ago

Be nice with her and handle it with a cool head. no matter how hard it may seem, stick with her. I f she's alone she'll feel helpless and she'll be going through A LOT in the next 9 weeks. make her feel at home and take care of any of her needs. Under NO circumstances should you run away and leave her. That is very stupid of you, heartless of you, unmanly of you, etc. before you know it, it's all gonna be over and you'll have a little miracle on your hands :)

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somanyquestions: 1 year ago

you gotta support her and the child.

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Preston1126: 1 year ago

Whatever you do, don't abort it. Abortion is killing innocent lives. You made a mistake with that girl, but don't resort to murder. God has a plan for everyone, even the unborn.

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econroy08: 1 year ago

If it's not her first time, then have a DNA test done to be positive. If it is yours, stay, and don't be an ass like most guys. Respect her and the child. It takes 2 to make a baby.

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cookieroma: 1 year ago via iPhone

Man up. You are old enough to make a baby. Don't turn away. You two should talk about the possibility of putting the baby up for adoption. I have 5 kids, the two youngest are adopted.

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eman77063: 1 year ago via iPhone

My little boy is the best thing that ever happened to me. I can not imagine him not in my life or not seeing him every day! He is the reason to get up, go to work and hurry home to see him again every day. Especially the days I don't want to.

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ccasclark: 1 year ago

Congratulations, today is the first day of the rest of your life. Today you step up and become a man, you do the right thing and raise this child, be there for it financially, and most importantly, emotionally.

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parris56: 1 year ago

You do not mention is you are a minor. You have a very difficult decision to make. I suggest that you decide if you are ready to be a parent. Then decide what is going to be best for the child. Not everyone is cut out to be a parent. There are many choices. Keeping it and raising it together, raising it separeately, adoption to a good family or other family member, abortion. While everyone can give you advice, the decision has to between you and your partner. I will pray for you and wish the the best of luck with your decision Only the two of you can decide what is best for the three of you. Listen with your heart, but think with your head. Got plans for the next 18 years?

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ccasclark: 1 year ago

How can you list abortion as an option in one breath than the next you say I'll pray for you? Who do you pray to? Just curious, because my God isn't really down with that as an option.

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joanna97: 1 year ago

God said children r a blessing, not a burden. I'm pretty sure an abortion would be for people who want to get rid of a growing burden. I'm sure God would not be to pleased with that decision.

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geekchic: 1 year ago

If you are old enough to make the baby then take care of it.

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charliedog: 1 year ago via iPhone

Either pay it's way or abort. I don't personally believe in abortion. But it is an option.

Read your profile. It says under interests--- dating women
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might change that when u get a chance.

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myopinion: 1 year ago via iPhone

I am getting the feeling you have no loving feelings for this girl or the child on the way... I guess that doesn't change that you will have to be responsible, but what way you will be?Find out what the girl is thinking about what to do. I suggest you do some research. What all the pros and cons of each action you guys take, short term and long.

Mostly, How will you use what is happening to you make you a better person or something you will regret later. Find some people you respect and get some support in your final decision.
Best to you.

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daddyshere: 1 year ago via iPhone

U should prolly take her to the shmabortion clinic..especially since you don't even know what to do now, doesn't seem like you know your ass from a whole in the ground

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alexishyden: 7 months ago | Last edited at 4:30PM on 10/24/2012

well put on your big boy pants and take responsiblity for what you did.if you are old enough to have sex then you need to man up. :)

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