Be responsible evry child deserves a father. yea get a DNA test if ur not cirtain it's urs but I strongly say do not encourage abortion that's just wrong nobody took ur life as a fetus or hers so just do the right thing be a good father
Be nice with her and handle it with a cool head. no matter how hard it may seem, stick with her. I f she's alone she'll feel helpless and she'll be going through A LOT in the next 9 weeks. make her feel at home and take care of any of her needs. Under NO circumstances should you run away and leave her. That is very stupid of you, heartless of you, unmanly of you, etc. before you know it, it's all gonna be over and you'll have a little miracle on your hands :)
My little boy is the best thing that ever happened to me. I can not imagine him not in my life or not seeing him every day! He is the reason to get up, go to work and hurry home to see him again every day. Especially the days I don't want to.
Congratulations, today is the first day of the rest of your life. Today you step up and become a man, you do the right thing and raise this child, be there for it financially, and most importantly, emotionally.
You do not mention is you are a minor. You have a very difficult decision to make. I suggest that you decide if you are ready to be a parent. Then decide what is going to be best for the child. Not everyone is cut out to be a parent. There are many choices. Keeping it and raising it together, raising it separeately, adoption to a good family or other family member, abortion. While everyone can give you advice, the decision has to between you and your partner. I will pray for you and wish the the best of luck with your decision Only the two of you can decide what is best for the three of you. Listen with your heart, but think with your head. Got plans for the next 18 years?
I am getting the feeling you have no loving feelings for this girl or the child on the way... I guess that doesn't change that you will have to be responsible, but what way you will be?Find out what the girl is thinking about what to do. I suggest you do some research. What all the pros and cons of each action you guys take, short term and long.
Mostly, How will you use what is happening to you make you a better person or something you will regret later. Find some people you respect and get some support in your final decision. Best to you.