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I'm one of those guys that cries alot, and I want to know what my friends (primarily girls) would think about me if I cry infront of them?

say if something upset me, and I started crying infront of the whole group?

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Probably better to cry in privacy...... It's ackward to have people crying around you...

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It depends on the person though it might not go over well.

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Okay. It would either go one of two ways. They would either think you a big emotional blub that needs to suck it up, or they'd think, "Aw, he's so sensitive. :)" I mean, it depends on what you were getting teary eyed about. Ya know?

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they might think you're pretty awkward

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It's just hard for me, because I have a form of austism called Asperger's syndrome. Which makes hard for me to understand social cues.
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It depends on the person. It also depends if they know what's wrong. It's ok to cry but sometimes people might get awkwarded out. So, it depends on the person and state of mind of the person.

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A lot of people don't know what to do if someone starts crying in front of them. If it's like one person who you're close to and understands the situation, they probably wouldn't freak out. But regardless if it's a guy or girl, a lot of people would find it awkward if someone just started crying.

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I know this since I'm a girl but I know that girls like when some boys cry in front of them!! The girls think the boys cute an all I would do it and see what they would do!! Good luck to what you do .. Hope this was helpful! ;)

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Ok no I don't think girls will but guys definatley it will stick with u for the rest of your life

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It depends on what their like. If their sweet and nice, most likely their going to try to pick you up from rock bottom. If their bitchy or hardcore, I would hold in my tears...

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Girls cry in front of me because they know we'll end up cuddling

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It depends on the situation some girls might find it attractive/cute that your not afraid to cry, but if you do it to offend and or in the wrong situation it becomes annoying

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Man up...no girl likes a guy who crys bro...i dont!

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you man up, you're the one who's too scared to cry in public
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Woah woah... Guys have feelings too bro... O.o lol
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i wouldnt care. It shows a soft side that alot of boys try to hide, and im sure alot of girls would say this, it makes us feel good on the inside that you arent always going to put up the 100% tough act around us.

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aw! that would be so sweet!! it sucks that some guys try to act too macho... it pisses me off... I wish more guys would be comfortable enough to cry in public... or brave enough

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guys have emotions too. So don't let others tell you to man up! There being sexist.

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It depends, cause there was this guy friend I had that started crying on the last day of school(I was too lol) but it was super embarrassing, kinda annoying, and now I think he's a weirdo and needs to not bawl about that kind of stuff haha;P but then there was another guy, at like a christian summer camp or something and when a guy was preaching/praying he put his head down and cried quitly a tiny bit, and that impressed me and made me attracted to him. It showed his true feelings. But when you just let loose, in public, bawling, it's so not attractive:P hah sorry

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I say let it out my teacher died last year after school one day and i'm a guy and my friends are boys and girls and they are fine with it.

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Dont Try.

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well, if it is something worth crying about, i would probably feel sorry for u, but if it is something stupid, i would recommend u do that in privacy

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Well its best to cry when you are alone but if you can't hold it and they are your real friends I'm sure they will understand. Guys have feelings too and sometimes its best if you cry it out.

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I don't get how people say it's "awkward"
Don't worry... It's not awkward at all... If your friends are "true friends" then they won't judge you and actually ask you what's wrong and how they can help. People who think it's "awkward" are sexist and unsympathetic. lol Guys are allowed to cry too, girls aren't the only ones who have dramatic lives.

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