what's missing in your relationship? can it be fixed? Are you being selfish? some hungers are never saticfied.Honesty and trust are the very corner stones of any relationship. Break those and it is for ever destroyed. How would you wish to be treated if the shoe was on the other foot? Be honest with your partner and yourself. I've been w/ my wife for 30 yrs dec 22. Never cheated. Not that I haven't had the oppertunity. I've had women drop thier cloths for me. and other ploys. I love my wife and made acomitment.
Don't do it! You have to cut all ties with this person immediately and never look back. No letters, e-mails, texts, phone calls, nothing. You have to quit him cold turkey. If you see him at work, this will mean finding another job, too. It will be hard but I promise it will be worth it.
Try your best to forget about that other guy & focus more on your husband/boyfriend. Go out an eat a fancy dinner with him, hopefully this will remind you why you love him & only him. If you don't get this reminder this probably means you lost love for him. Break up with him before having any relation with any guy. I dont know about you but I know about me, & I would feel terrible knowing I was the one that ruined that relationship & kept him loving me while I loved another. Good luck!
obviously ur missing or lacking something in ur relationship. instead of cheating and being labelled a cheater...I personally would leave And move on. if ur attempting to cheat then you have no regard for your mate, lover, bf, husband. no point in staying. even talking about it is jot a good sign. sometimes talking to each other , saying u need more this or that, and if it don't work then move on. but having ur self respect and dignity instead of hurting and disrespecting someone for a self indulgence 5 mins is really in my books not worth it. good luck
You want it to stop ... Then get your head outta your arse ... And get back in touch with reality.
You don't want to be with your husband .. Then LEAVE him... Don't let your fantasy world devastate your family...because it will ... Eventually it will. An affair is a game changer ... A game you are destined to lose.
Well you just cannot cheat. Its the worst thing to do to someone and you become the worst person. If you feel you can never like your spouse again. End things with him first. And make it look like you fell for the new guy after quite a sometime. Please do not cheat.