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My ex-fiancé from two years ago still will not stop the rumors and lies and has ended any potential with another woman recently. HELP!!!

Our breakup was hard on both of us. She is still angry with me and has alliances in certain circles that is starting to affect my ability to meet anyone new in this town. The other day her brother posted something nasty about me on twitter. It's been 2 years! When will she and her family give it up and let me have a life? What can I do about this? A few woman have refused to even give me a shot because of this! Ahhhhhh!!!

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Move start over

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If it were that simple I would in a heartbeat
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Just do it
It is that simple
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The best thing to do is to learn to stay calm. You also have to develop a more positive attitude, deal with the pessimistic emotions and also accept the situation so that it will not bother you.

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You're right. It's just hard sometimes because I dealt with a lot of abusive crap from her which led up to me ending things. Two years later, I've been ready to move on for a while now but now when I try I'm finding out she has done a lot of damage to me. I just want it to all stop.
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It's probably just the beginning so prepare yourself! Some women are just crazy like that:)

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That's what I'm afraid of...
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Maybe you should try moving
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Believe me I think about it a lot! My job and family/friends are important to me though. I would love to be as far away from her as possible though!
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I see but that might just be the solution...good luck!
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You might want to concider getting a restraining order on her and name everyone involved in it. Had to do this with my ex and all his 'bleeps', talk about some crazy beaches! I thought about moving but like you, family and job out weighed moving. In my case it worked. You can list everything you want done, like no slandering, no stalking if she's doing that, etc. You can ask that all named in the restraning order follow the order. If you do decide make sure you gather as much evidence and/or witnesses and affidavits about what is being done against you for your case. I hope it all works out for you. Good luck.

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She's not stalking and she hasn't threatened me at all. Just a bunch of lies and rumors meant to hurt me. I didn't know her enough when I proposed, that was my mistake. My dad passed away, and after a few months she started rolling her eyes any time I mentioned him and even took off the ring and said "I'm sorry your dad died but don't take it out on me" just bc I was upset and asked if we could talk about the wedding later. On top of all that she was just mean and selfish all the time after the engagement. She broke my heart, so I broke it off. Now, she is such a victim and she wants me to hurt and be a miserable person. I'm not a miserable person and I won't be but since I've been getting back out there I'm learning she's done a lot of damage to me, and that is frustrating.
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Haha lucky you u got with a nutbar 2 years ago , well you can talk to her and maybe settle things - but its probs not gonna end until she gets a life or a bf .

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Don't mess with women

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Kinda makes you glad you were smart enough to get rid of her, don't it? Thank you jeezus.

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