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Is it cheating if you go on a friendly date with an old friend and don't tell your girlfriend about it?

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No but why would you now tell her?

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I wouldn't consider that to be cheating, although your girlfriend might have a different opinion. You can either tell her about it beforehand or never mention it, unless she discovers and asks. What is important is that you have a clear conscience.

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I should prolly never mention it then because women be snapping these days
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No... Just tell her? It's stupid not to

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wound you care if your girlfriend went on a friendly date with a guy that might be attractive and didnt tell you? always always tell your gf what your doing especially if it involves a nother women even if its a friend. that will get a girl thinking real quit. but no cheating is when you kiss touch look or talk in a flirting manner or sexual manner

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Appreciate it, very helpful
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no, i wouldnt call it a date. but going out for lunch/dinner/breakfast with an old friend.say that you ran into her/him and decided to have l/d/b and that nothing happened but catching up :)

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I like how u answered that
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thank you
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It might not exactly be cheating, but it isn't acceptable, and it isn't very nice. Depending what happened on the "date," of course, it may totally be cheating.

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It could be physical cheating, emotional cheating, or straight dishonesty. Especially considering you called it a "date" and not just "went to dinner."

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The cheating isn't just the act of having sex .. it's the deception.

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icic6772

It's not cheating but I think that you should tell your girlfriend.

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If you have to hide it from your girlfriend, then your intentions might be more than just a "friendly" date.

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candybar

If it weren't, you'd be able to be upfront and honest with your girlfriend...maybe invite her to come along.

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Ask yourself how you would feel if she did that and didn't tell you?

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Not cheating but still wrong.

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As long as you TELL HER and she's fine with it it's okay.

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nope, hey as long as its friendly no way should you even bother her, but like my gf tells me " i dont care how you get your appetite as long as you come home for dinner." you get me? hope it helps.

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I don't think so but your girlfriend might. People have varied views on what cheating is. The only way to find out hers is to ask her & tell her about the date. If I had a boyfriend & he did that, I wouldn't mind unless he wanted her or she wanted him. But regardless, I would like to be told about this date. If it's friendly, then there is no reason why you shouldn't or not want to mention it to your girlfriend.

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Always cover your a**. If you and this so called friend are going out somewhere wherever it may be it is not going to look right with just the two of you alone from her point of view especially if your attracted to her or the opposite in anyway. I don't know your age but remember this advise Think before you Do.

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YummyKimchiPancakes

Yep, because you just called it a date.

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