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Why am I so unlucky?

Like before I was born my parents were going to abort me because they couldn't afford me but that didn't happen so they put me up for adoption and then re-adopted me when they could. When I was seven I was kidnaped and abused by a child molester/pedophile which has given me social anxiety and depression and started my fear of guys. I also have insomnia, and just recently three people I really loved died and my best friend and my boyfriend moved away. And Saturday I was beat up by my neighbor and got a concussion and won't be able to celebrate my birthday Friday. :/

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If I gave you my life story, you would say I'm unlucky too. I'm really sorry to hear about that, but you can choose to build a better life for yourself now.

Some people lead easy lives, and some people have to endure hard things. It forces you to be a better, stronger person. Hang in there :)

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Hi Ninja, is everything okay with your bf? I'm sorry you got into that mess, hope things have cleared up for you. Love your attitude!
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Thanks koichan, things are better, yes :)
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I so glad! These things help us learn how to build better relationships and stronger characters, don't they. Guess that's easy to say, another thing to remember when the rain is falling.
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Aw yep :)
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well you need better parents

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Because I can unscramble an egg

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icic6772

Poor baby!!!! I'm so sorry. I wish there was something I could do to help you.

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Are you being serious...? :/
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What do you mean? You think I'm being sarcastic or something? Cuz I'm not. I really wish I could help you.
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Oh I don't know. Poor baby doesn't sound serious.
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I'm sorry if my concern upset you :(
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No it's cool... :)
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Okay :). Do you want to talk about it?
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Not really.
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icic6772
It'll be easier to get over it once you tell someone about it.
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But I don't like talking about my past. I'm just upset that my bday is in 2 days and I don't get to celebrate it. :/ I'm turning 17 so it should have been a fun birthday y'know?
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icic6772
Yeah. I'm so so sorry. I wish I could give you something. Why would anyone not like you? I mean not only are you nice but you are very cute too! :)
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Thanks... :)
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Your welcome.
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But I think it would be good for you to open up and tell me what's happened in your life.
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I'd rather not please don't ask
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icic6772
Well if you keep on holding it in you might have some serious psychological problems when you get older.
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Yeah.... :/
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icic6772
I'm not gonna judge you. I just want to listen to you.
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Ok but I'd rather not talk about it
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icic6772
Alright. You don't have to say anything to me that you don't want to.
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Ok...?
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icic6772
What's with the ?
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Nothing... :)
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Okay :)
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So what's up? :) I'm bored since I can't do anything.
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icic6772
I'm feeling really sick to my stomach.
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Oh why?! I hope you feel better.
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icic6772
It might be an ulcer or gastritis. That's what the doc said.
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Oh :/
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icic6772
Yeah... So what's up with you? :)
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Nothing lol
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icic6772
When's your birthday?
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January 11 in two days... :)
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icic6772
And you're in the hospital?
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Nah I'm home as of yesterday.
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icic6772
I wish I could just give you a big hug!! After all you've been through I would think you would need one :)
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Yeah I would love a hug
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icic6772
Well I'd give you one if I could!!!
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Hey... :)
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icic6772
What's up?
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Just came back from the doctor.
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icic6772
What happened?!
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Idk. Still think I'm a poor baby? Lol I happen to agree.
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icic6772
It's haut that I hate it when girls are sad. Especially girls as pretty as you ;)
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It's ok thanks... :)
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*just.
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So what's up?
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The moon.
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icic6772
What's up with YOU??
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Lol nothing. :/
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icic6772
You just went to the hospital. I'm pretty sure something is up.
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No I'm fine seriously.
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icic6772
What about all the thee stuff on your profile.
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What stuff lol?
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icic6772
Oh wait that's someone else. But what about all of that terrible stuff that's happened to you?
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me to sorry

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I guess things just happen. Some people attract violence and bad luck; while others detract it. Are you still going to your therapy for the depression?

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Aww I hope that isn't true!

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Well it is
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Aww so sad for you. Wish I could help you!
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im sorry but your life probably can change if you believe in jesus and you go to church and worship i have a hard life to and im sorry to hear that ='(

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Well as long as you still have breath you still have hope sis. :/

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Yah I know Meg... :)
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How sweet! :)
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Thor, I really HATE that these things happened to you. You have had some things happen, that nobody should have to endure. You can either let these things run your life, OR you can be strong (not saying you aren't) and use these things in your future. Words aren't going to help much, I know, but I definitely believe that you will come out of this a much stronger person. Ever thought about writing a book about it? You probably would be shocked at how many people are holding similar issues in, and you could help them, as well as it being therapeutic for you. I wish you the best Thor.....stay strong.

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OMG, wow! You've been through a lot! You poor thing. I am so sorry, but you know, things can only get better from here, right? Wow, that's rough. Only good luck for you, from here on in. :)

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I'm unlucky too... I was almost switch with a different parent when I was a baby and the other parents died like two months after and I have a heart condition that I still have until now and almost got kidnap when I was in kindergarten

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... good morning... :)
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Good morning! :)
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What's up? :)
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Nothing sitting in class listening to the boring teacher o.0 lol
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Oh. I'm not doing school
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Why not? Oh wait! Nvm :)
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Ok then...
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Ugh! I hate this day >.<
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I'm sorry...
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Lol it's fine no need for sorry's :) ok time for me to go to my music class and torture my middle finger :D
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Oh bye
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No I'm not leaving yet its free time in my music class so I have nothing to do! :F
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Oh
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Lol... Are you felling fine now?
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No
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Awwe go eat some soup that will make you feel better
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Lol ok...
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Chicken noodle soup?
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Ok I have that.
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Lol ok go make some soup :)
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Lol ^_^
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Oh while your in there make me food lol Jk :D
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No I don't feed random guys
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Lol ok.
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Lol
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Running RUN-ing RUN- ing RUN-ing RUN-ing run-ING... Sorry trying to practice my music in my head... Lol :D
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Oh
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Lol so what are you doing right now?
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Eating. :P
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Good. Chicken noodle soup?
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Yesh
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Cool!
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Yeah :)
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Sorry theres no wifi in my science building
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It's k
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Ok I'm in Spanish class and its so quiet... *cricket sounds* lol jk
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Oh
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Oh lol... Have you read the comic strip called copetin?
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No
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Ok nvm... And yay lunch even though school lunch sucks
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Lol bring your own then
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Lol I would start bringing food button free lunch will be wasted
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Ok then
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So what are you doing?
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Reading
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Ok. What book?
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The Hiding Place
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Lol Im reading speak for my English class and my group choose it cause there's a r@pe scene -.-
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Wow
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Yeah ikr?!? I wanted to read to k!ll a mocking bird... But no... Lol
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Hah and I live that book
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Live? Lol Jk I understand autocorrect messed it up again
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Love :P
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Who me? Are you talking to me? =P
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Ahhhh
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Lol bell just rang and history is gonna be so fun :D
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Oh
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Lol not really I'm just gonna sleep in the class :D sounds fun, right?
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Yeahhh. Don't sleep. :P
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Ok I'll stay awake :D
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Lol good
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Ok so whats up? Except the sky :)
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The moon
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I can't see the moon :(
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I'm sorry
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All I can see is the ceiling -.- lol
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Oh I thought you were blind
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Oh! I am. I can only see at night
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Because you're an owl right?
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Yesh and I can shape shift :))
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Lol
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I'm watching a movie and its called four feathers, have you seen it?
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No
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Ok then nvm... Anyway are you feeling better now?
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Not really
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Sorry I have a test in English so yeah
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Are you still at school?!
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Yeah I'm doing afterschool stuff but I'll be home in like 45 mins or so
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Wow! It's like 6pm here
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It's only 3 pm in here
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Yeah cuz you live in Cali right?
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Yeah... It's like 3hrs gap between me and you
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Yup
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So I'm almost done with my stuff and yeah
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Interesting.
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-.- funny... Lol hk
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Lol :)
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Lol :) so what did you do awhile ago?
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Wha? I went to the doctors b4...
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Nvm... And good and get some lollipop from your doctor :D you baby lol
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I wish. I went because I wasn't breathing. -__-
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Wha?!?!? Are you ok?
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Mhm...
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What kind of answer is that?!?
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A idk but I don't want to say idk kind of answer
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Oh ok I don't say that word too
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Lol :)
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Idk lol Jk
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Wow... ^_^
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^___________________^ lol whats so funny?
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You are
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^_^ thnx! you too!
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Lol
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Lolqrtukongdhjdsgjjgujdhkhgu
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What does that mean?! Lol
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I'm not sure what that is... But I'm guessing its my language?
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Your language? Sure...
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But I don't understand my own language... I don't get it
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Lol ^_^ you're funny
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Why not?
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Lol I'm making an irony I said no comment but I still commented
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Yeah... ^_^
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Why would you think me and mankilla were dating? Lol
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Why did you ask? Well just some observations when you guys ate talking
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And sorry if it took me a long time to reply cause I was helping my dad carry something
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It's cool
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Meaning by cool I think I have a fever
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Really? :/
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Yeah... But I will try to get better by tonight... You should too
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Oh
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Haha gotta eat some chicken noodles soup then ^_^
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Oh
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Lol I don't know if I want to eat soup tonight or just starved
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Don't starve!!!
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Why not?
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Because that's bad for you! And when you starve you die and that'd be terrible! :(
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But when I'm sick i don't feel like eating...
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Oh...
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Yeah I eat alot when I'm not sick but when I'am sick i feel like I don't wanna eat
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Ok....
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A week after your birthday is my crush's birthday and I don't know if I should greet her happy birthday through text or face to face
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Face to face...
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Ok... Then time for me to gain some confidence to do that
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Why don't you behave confidence?
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Have*****
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Cause I'm a girl?
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Wtf? :P
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Lol I knew it!
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