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Ex-gf told me she's 3months+ prego 3 days after breaking up, and claimed 5 tests were negative, and she's innocent. WDY think?

I think either: 1.she lied to avoid abortion OR 2. It's not mine
Which one is more probable?

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If she is, in fact, pregnant, whether or not you are together...if the child is yours, you will be required to support the child. I would not sweat it too much just yet, when (and if) she has a child, request a paternity test...DO NOT AUTOMATICALLY SIGN YOUR NAME TO THE BIRTH CERTIFICATE! If the child is, in fact, yours...MAN UP AND TAKE CARE OF YOUR CHILD! If the paternity test proves that the child is NOT yours, kiss her off and be done! She's not the only one responsible to prevent pregnancy...cover your Sh*t Dude!

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Who broke up with who?

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Just tell her to go to a obgyn they will tell her if she is pregnant. Pregnancy test are not 100%. And also if she is too early in her pregnancy she won't know yet, I suggest her ask a dr or obgyn
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she showed me pic she definitely is!
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I broke up with her.
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+info: we were studying together in Uni in Europe. Now we're back to our countries. Thousands of miles away, I don't know if that's my kid, and when asked her to do a dna test she didn't answer my email. What do you think she's thinking (if you're a girl)? Does she want to keep me puzzled? Or is the kid not mine?
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I'm a girl she might not want to keep the baby just my guess
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she can't get rid of it now it's too late
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Oh hmm not youres and embarrassed
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I think it doesn't matter.

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It could be his first child which is a HUGE deal.. it matters.
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Make sure she doesn't get an abortion! (It'll be your first child) and go to her house or vice versa and bring some test, and wait til she comes out of the bathroom and check..

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she is in another country now/ with chat via email. I asked her to do a DNA after giving birth but she didn't reply to that!
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Then don't worry, when that baby comes out, you'll know the real truth..
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mankilla444

i think its no longer your problem dude its hers!

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That's such a guy thing to say
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thats a messed up thing to say
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mrdrcooldude

im thinkin 1

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Dna

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Ignoring it is the best option.

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Do you know how many ex girl friends say that after a man breaks the relationship off with her. I have no idea why they say that. Do they think its going to make you love them more? Oh for gods sakes!
My son just broke it off with his girlfriend and guess what?....... you guessed it. She's informed him she is pregnant. He said "good, you know I love kids. Lets get together and pick out names. " A week or two later when he wouldn't take the bait she told him she wasn't pregnant. Women should know this douses any flickering flames that may still be left. It also causes the man to disrespect her for lying and playing a game about a very serious situation.

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very true i know tons of girls who do this
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desperate girls...sad
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if she is telling the truth be there for her as best as you can :)

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truth is hard to know with my ex she's a very discreet person
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