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am I right in this situation

me and my fiance want to have a child however i am quite overweight and am in the process of losing it but he wants to start trying now and i want to wait until i am at a healthy weight because i feel i will have a healthier safer pregnancy.....who is right in this situation?

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You are. Firstly u are doing the smart thing by waiting until u are healthy to conceive and carry a child. Being overweight during pregnancy can up ur chances of miscarriage as well as complicate ur pregnancy for urself and the baby. Secondly- ur the one carrying the baby for 9 months and dealing with morning sickness and all the side effects that come with pregnancy. So unless ur fiance has found a way for HIM to carry the baby he can wait until ur ready.

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thank you very much :)
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I think your husband is right. Because after you have the baby you can lose all the baby weight and any other weight you want to lose at once.

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you are. it's your body and you know it much better than he ever can.

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It shouldn't affect the child unless your weight causes other body problems. Oh and if you are uncomfortable still, you should talk to a doctor.

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Well if u loose wieght now your going to gain it back when u have the baby. So go for it now! Lose it after! Your young!

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You would end up fighting the frustration of having to lose weight AGAIN if you trimmed down then got pregnant. Have the baby first.

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Being overweight is a risk factor in pregnancy
Look it up

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thanks this is the type of answer i was looking for :)
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I believe you're right

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