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HELP! He's my best friend but he has a girlfriend for 5 years now. I've told him I like like him and he feels the same way.

what should I do? I think about him all the time and we hang out a lot. I like him a lot and he's just been my best friend. we always joke around and I've told him that I really like him and he feels the same way towards me. he's had his girlfriend for five years now and have been long distance for about two years. I just really need some advice and soon please.

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Don't try to date him. He has a girlfriend and he likes you, that's messed up. He might like another girl again if you start dating him. And you don't want to start DRAMA so stop thinking about him in that way.

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Aw wanna talk?

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okay umm...i don't think he feels the same way if he's had a girlfriend for five years and is still going out with her.

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you need to talk to him again. this whole situation seems a bit crazy and it's very similar to mines. he's gonna have to choose because it kinda seems like he's leading you on and keeping you on a hook.

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If he will cheat with you (even emotionally) he will cheat on you better steer clear

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Ask him why he is dating this other girl if he likes you so much. Express your opinions and feelings clearly and strongly. Make it understood to him that you will not tolerate, nor accept his sad and lame excuses. You are strong. You can do it.

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Don't interfere in their relationship or you will just look like the bad guy, ask him (alone) why he is dating that girl if he told you that he like you. Plus if he really liked you he would (nicely) breakup with the girl and date you :)

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its ok i totally understand my best freind has a girlfriend now and is moving away today and i really like him and he likes me and i am geting so jeloues

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