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Is there a cure for heartbreak?

I can't make people like me so I give up. he has 4 crushes and I want to be the only one. why do I like him if he is such a player? I hate this feeling I get when I see him flirt so what should I do to cure my sorrow? I'm tired of waiting in line to be a part of his heart I give up

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Yes, it's called time.

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indeed
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Hope you aren't speaking from experience. : (
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I've had my fair share.
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Yep. And growing up.
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sorry : [
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hello c'mom... I agree time does heal the wounds of heart ache..
Happy New Year!
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Hi! Been a while!
Thanks, happy new year to you, too.
You sound like you speak from experience, blades. : (
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wow

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stop whining and move on= perfect cure

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Shut up. U don't understand
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Don't be sad, guys are nothing but ass holes, don't worry, that right guy will come to you when your ready. :) Never cry for a guy sweetie, just don't, it's not worth it. ;)

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Sounds like somebody got dumped one too many times.
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I mean who hasn't ?? Lmao. :O
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Time

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It's simple- grow up.

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How bout u keep your mouth shut before you get rocked in it
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Lots of chocolate

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It's called growing up. You'll reach an age where you don't have "crushes" anymore. You'll actually know what love is and what you really want from a partner.

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Green that sir
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This is a million years of evolution, he wants to impregnate as many females as possible, you want a steady relationship. You have to do what they did back in the caveman days, you have to COMPETE for him! ... Uhhh, just don't let him get you pregnant!

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You don't sound old enough to be giving up on something you don't even understand or have experience with
dedicate your time to getting an education vs. having a partner
you have plenty of time for that.
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Jack, was that for me or was it your answer to the question?
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Is he saying that happy looking couple in your picture are too young. Plus for the both of you. That he!! of raising children really worked in that household.
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Haha I think it was meant for the answer box
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Ahh. That's a bummer then.
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Sounds like your biggest problem is the green-eyed monster, jealousy. Besides, if you're still calling it a crush, you're probably not old or mature enough for a serious relationship. No insult here, you're just not ready, yet.
Oh yeah, time is the only cure, and it's guaranteed to work, take liberal amounts of it.

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I feel the same but the crushes he has is like 4 too but he said that I'm pretty before (and other stuff) but I don't know if I should like him because I don't want to get hurt so what I do is I let him do his own thing and leave him alone but we talk all the time but trust me it's not easy to let go but sometimes it's the best way. hope I helped!
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this is an interesting question, i've also noticed alot of stupid answers to it, lets think for a moment, what is love exactly? what makes it love? very simply, the answer to this, is that love is a verb, an action, a choice, when you boil down to it, love is a choice to do what is best for someone, and to put them first, even at a cost to your own well being, case and point example? look at any crucifix and see Jesus on the cross for our sins. Now, that being said, the wounds of love, are healed by love itself, time will never mend a broken heart, that just isnt reality, love must fill the hole that another love leaves, it is in human nature to love, it is truly a requirement that we love someone to be truly happy, whether that someone be God, your bf/gf, your wife or husband, or whoever it may be, "the trick is to love someone, because if you love just one person, you see everyone else differently"-i think Bertrand Russel said that if i recall correctly, in any case, if you wish to truly "get over this heartbreak", then find someone worthy of your love, instead of pursuing that which will ultimatly lead, only to your own pain, and never yours, or anyone elses, happiness.

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Damn bro, that was an amazing answer
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experience, when paired with a little bit of philosophy, goes a looooonnnng way.
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Experence? That sucks man.
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yeah, sometimes, but i like to think it made me better, if i hadnt gotten that experience, i wouldnt be who i am today.
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True, however most people seem to think that it makes them worse, do you honestly believe that, or are you just one of those "I'm gonna look at the bright side, amd talk like I'm on the bright side, but I'll just stay over here", kind of guys?
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*and*
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no, i honestly believe it, i always try and look at both sides of things, for instance, the downside to heartbreak is that it hurts, you get shattered into tiny pieces, and you have to pick yourself up, all along the way getting thousands of tiny cuts from the jagged edges, but the end result is, if you can actually manage to pick yourself up, and put yourself back together, then you come back stronger in the end, and i have now picked myself up twice, i have a very stubborn never give up mentality, failure is not an option, and can't means wont try (marine corps mentality, both my parents were marines), the ideal that what doesnt kill me makes me stronger, comes also from the fact that i'm an extremely well trained martial artist, and i know that if you bruise or break something, it starts to gain an immunity to it, and it wont break quite as easily next time. I learned that looking to the light instead of huddling in the darkness, helps me ill the hole that i talked about in the answer far faster.
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Both your parents were marines, that explains so much. I also read that you have a "never say die" attitude, if you will. I got the exact same thing, only neither of my parents were in any branch of the military and they give up way too easy.
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yeah, "never say die" pretty much covers it, and if your parents give up way too easily, it explains why you have the never give up attitude, kids naturally learn from their parents, whether its from their mistakes or succeses, you have done the smart thing and realized that a weak will to commit and do something, would make you a weak person, and so you have adopted an attitude that will make you stronger, ability to adapt to your enviroment is good, i can tell its something you have, keep honing it and it helps alot, i know from experience, improvise, adapt, and overcome is another marine corps mentality, and i have to do alot of it.
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In my mind set, "overcome" is the easy one, and even then it can be extremely difficult.
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but then again, would you feel any sense of victory, and would it be any fun if it was easy?
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Haha, that's why I never just overcome, it's no fun if it's easy
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exactly, i love challenges, i'm always looking for a way to challenge myself, i think its part of human nature to want to get stronger, so those of us who know what that need is, go searching for a challenge to cut their teeth on, in hopes of breaking a previous limit
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Exactly
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glue

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Hmmm...to be completly honest, other than time, I have no idea what else could help. I also hope that you don't have to deal with d!cks like that guy again.

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Yes! Have fun with friends and do what you want! Don't wait for him! if he can't see your amazing he's not worth it! >:|

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Yea and there called callgirls! Mend a broken heart in 5min flat!

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Just time!!! Sorry!!

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Yeah it's called after the best friend

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