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riahrosebud: 4 months ago

I want to be loved?

I feel that because of my glasses, people treat me different, and all the guys turn me down. They aren't the really big glasses that your picturing. How can I be loved without changing?

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jrbmember2: 4 months ago

hey i love a chick with glasses, thats my style... dont change at all sweetheart.

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riahrosebud: 4 months ago

Aww, thank you so much! I won't.

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shooshie525: 4 months ago | Last edited at 5:43AM on 1/10/2013

If you need to change to be loved, then that is not true love.

When I was in 5th grade my eyesight started to change and I needed glasses. I can't say it was easy at first because kids are kids and when something is different they tend to notice and not in always a kind way. That passed and I became comfortable in my glasses and bought frames that suited my style. When I was older, I opted for contacts, but there are days I do still wear my glasses. You will find love in time and he will accept you with or without glasses. I find that love always found me when I was not looking or trying too hard. Just be yourself and think of your glasses as a new accessory. :)

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riahrosebud: 4 months ago

Thank you so much! I don't NEED love, but I want people to love me for who I am.

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jooshboi : 4 months ago via Android

Don't change for anybody, develop a stronger self esteem because you're going to mentally depress yourself: (.

ps,
I think glasses are cute:).

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riahrosebud: 4 months ago

Thank you! I won't change.

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jooshboi : 4 months ago via Android

Don't change please because you're already adorable: ).

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riahrosebud: 4 months ago

Aww, thank you! It really means a lot to me. I won't change.(:

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riahrosebud: 4 months ago

I promise.

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jooshboi : 4 months ago via Android

I'm going to hold you to that. Remember, if a man asks you to change then he is not worth your time:).

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riahrosebud: 4 months ago

That is really great advice, thanks! I will always remember that.(:

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Sexykeema: 4 months ago via iPhone | Last edited at 5:49AM on 1/10/2013

Love yourself first. Your glasses should not be a reason to feel unloved. We all have at least one thing we don't like about ourselves.The right people is already lined up to come into your life.Be patient and enjoy who you are flaws and all.Glasses make people look sexier and smarter;)

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riahrosebud: 4 months ago

Umm, thank you? Jk. Thanks. It really means a lot!

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mike979: 4 months ago via Android

listen i went through the same thing i promise i didn't have many friends in high school so i just started working out for me then thay came if you changed change for yourself no one els do you doint fallow the crowd of people lead them hope it help :)

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riahrosebud: 4 months ago

Thank you! It really helped, and you are right. I shouldn't follow the crowd. I just want to be loved for who I am.

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mike979: 4 months ago via Android

exactly be yourself i promise you will be loved for it :)

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riahrosebud: 4 months ago

Thank you again! And I believe that we have met before? Do remember me? I'm Riah.

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cookieroma: 4 months ago via iPhone

Perhaps it's the people in your circle. I mean I am now 60 tears old and have worn glasses since I was 16. I've never found it to be any kind of an issue.

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riahrosebud: 4 months ago

Perhaps. Thanks!

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Kenneth1965: 4 months ago

There's nothing wrong with glasses. Be who you are. Do NOT try to change for other people. You will fail every time. Remember, though: if you do want to change, do it for yourSELF. Keep the glasses, though. There's nothing wrong with glasses.

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riahrosebud: 4 months ago

Thank you so much! I like my glasses, but I just wished other people would see me passed the glasses.

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susan.elliott: 4 months ago via iPhone

Glasses can be very stylish,they can be part of how one describes you, or get contact lenses if it bothers you that much.

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riahrosebud: 4 months ago

Thanks a lot!(:

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Exit1: 4 months ago via iPhone

Guys love that librarian look, get sexier glasses, sweety!

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riahrosebud: 4 months ago

They do? Not where I live.): But thanks for the advice!

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