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My former best friend is a bitch and I don't even wanna be friends with her, so why do I keep checking her status updates?

We were friends for a few years and did everything together, but she's got so many drama in her life and I was sick of her taking it out on me so I decided not to see her anymore. But I keep checking her status updates and stuff, why can't I just be like: I'm done?

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Curiosity. Maybe you are looking for more drama for confirmation that you made the right move in cutting ties. Checking someone's profile doesn't always mean you care, or even like them. If you really are done it's simple curiosity, maybe you are looking for her to post something on you. No matter, you made a good decision.

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Hi Bubb !
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Habit

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You miss what you remember about her, before she changed.

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Because she still means something to you. Yeah, so you didn't want to be friends with her because of what she did. But it's going to take a while to stop thinking about her. She was in your life all the time and like you said y'all did everything together. It's going to take a while to get un-used to all that.

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You can't let go of her? Maybe you had a close connection. I have an ex best friend, and we don't talk but I wish we were still friends.

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Cos secretly you miss her?

I ditched my bestie back in the day for like a year cos she beat the sh!t outta one of my sisters, but we ended up best mates again so yeah.

You can't replace a true best friend, even if they've wronged you in some way.

G'luck with it. :)

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if you dislike her, and tired of her drama, why u want keep checking her status? I think u should u just let her be , shower her u busy doing something else, and maybe she will see that and miss u and try to be different with you, good luck.

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there is an ole saying,"birds of a feather, flock together!)...;-)

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Because the friendship meant a lot to you,you miss her,slightly feel dumped, and you want to see what she's up to. Inquiring minds want to know. Give it time you will loose interest.

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Yeah bubblious is correct.checking your status doesnot mean that u still care for her or remember her.it's just that u want to keep an eye on her and each of her moves. COZ I DO THE SAME HAHAHA.

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