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What to do if your mom goes and sits in class with you all day? and your in the 8th grade

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Wtf?! Why is she coming to school with you?

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I have a question. Does she not have a job?!
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What just happened to the ask.com layout?!
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WHOO EIGHT THUMBS UP! I FEEL SO LOVED! :Partay:
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meeeeeee to like i now a girl her mom sit with her tell 5:30 and she have a dad i think the dad doing the work like let her go
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then she loves you and you should appreciate her cuz she really loves you and want you to do good in life. she supports you. you should feel lucky :)

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soo sweet but not meee this girl i now in my class her mom sit with her
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Start acting better so she doesn't have to do that. Get your grades up. There is a lot of things that you can do. Change what you were doing that made her do that in the first place. Good luck.

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right but its not me a girl i now so bad and mean she a acting good
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What did you do to make her have to come there in the first place, or what didn't you do?

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um,..................... its not be a girl i kown
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tell the person next to you loud enough so your mom doesnt hear but loud enough so other classmates hear "is that your mom"

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Lol? If his/her mom is sitting right next to him/her why wouldn't she hear if other classmates hear?
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Great idea!
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Lol!!!!
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lol i love that one but him or her mom is siting next and than goood but your classmate will stop and think like my bff is so omg we go out all the time but i not care
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right thats gooddd
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Tell someone at the school like the principal or someone! A teacher, anyone! That's nonsense.

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You can tell on your mom...to the principal?
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you mean you can tell your mom on the principal i have a song with mb mindless behaveior i love they kiss me girl ray is not find roc his say a fuck you now that
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Destine: I have no idea what you just said.
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What's the rest of the story? Did you do something to warrant Mom to sit with you? Mom's usually have your best interest at heart. She must think something is wrong that your not telling her...

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You are a trouble maker at school, it's called shadowing, the parent follows the kid around in an attempt to make the kid behave, it's kind of embarrassing for the kid, the next step is suspension, then expulsion.

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I don't get why she would do that. You should have a talk with her and find out why she would do that

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that a bith you now that bye you girls
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what do you mean?
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like its not mee you talking about a girl? girl
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She does not! Geez. If you're serious, has she told you why? Have you not been doing your work or been messing around in class?

If you've done nothing and she is just there to bug you, then go in and talk to your principal and counselor and let them know it makes you uncomfortable and you'd like it if you could go to school without a babysitter. I can guarantee you they will tell her she can't be there anymore.

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im in 8th grade and if my mom would do this i would tell her how i feel and she might be a little sad at first but soon she will like that you are close enough to tell her, say it to her nice like, i know that you enjoy coming to school with me and watching my class but it is a little embarrassing so if it is ok with you could you please stop coming, please think about it,thank you

i hope that this helps you good luck

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not meeeeeeeeeee
a girl i now
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if she ever does tell her i don't want you to sit with me and tell her why

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good luck
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girl not meee my om got job haha a girl i now her mom sit with her
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Be. Good. :)

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It means your not doing to good and it sounds like her and the the front office have been getting together..good luck

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Parent conferences?

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Sounds like she wants to see your doing

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go to the nurse or guidance to stay out of class!

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actlike the kid she want to see. always raise you hand and pay attention if u dont already

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this was very smart
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Thank God that you have a mother who cares and take time to visit the school. I would go and eat lunch with my kids and go to a class or more with them. The were annoyed at first then realized how fortunate they were that someone cared. Just enjoy your mom and stop complaining. Soon you might do the same with your own kids

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i love this we can be bff if i see you so get me your nuber and we can se
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be good duh!

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oh no
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Lol. Haha

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She either needs to be their because she feels you need to be watched or maybe it's the teacher she is concerned with. You may not like it but a parent who doesn't care wouldn't be bothered.

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It depends on why she is doing it. If you get along with your teacher, I might talk to him, a counselor, or your dad. Someone you know very well, so that you can get another point of view. I would let her know that you feel completely humiliated with her there. I would tell her it makes you feel like she doesn't have enough faith in you. Ask her if there is another way to address her concerns, and at least meet her halfway, and try to do it. She wants what is best for you.

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i will be mad and cry and than see we take me home than i can stay home and say mom i can not go to school becuse look wat you doing to me im going to get l at and more so i not going back to school like me i love my mom but i can not tell her to stay and there with me becuse i will stay and there for 24 hores that well not be fuck f

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What's the whole story noodle?

You do the opposite of what you've been doing to make her go sit in your class, that's what you do!

I'm sure she has better things to do than to supervise you for 8 hrs.

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Dude seriously ? Okay when I was in 8th grade, I was a total disaster as a student. So here's my answer: Get serious about going to classes, and doing all your work, and homework. Take it from someone who was in your shoes and is a little older an wiser now, go to school and seriously work as hard as you can to get good grades and pass. Believe me when I tell you your choices now will dictate the person people see remember. They will also influence you later on and your desirability in getting a job. Trust me dude, stop screwing around and your mom will totally back off a bit. Good luck.

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I bet she would rather do just about anything else but follow you around school. I think most people are probably right she's making sure you behave or that something bad isn't going on... If that is true build her trust again by behaving and doing well. Also, talk to her about your days in honesty. It helps build relationships and trust on both sides ;)

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Wow! Tell her you'd rather her not come because you want some independence.

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ask ur mom if u can talk to her. tell her that u love that shes concerned about u but then tell her the reasons why u dont want her there. if u dont get mad and just talk it out then maybe she'll see that ur responsible/mature enough to be alone. good luck.

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Embarrassing!!!

Anyway, sit down with your mom and tell her your true feelings about her coming 2 school with you.

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There must be a reason she's there! I had to go to school with my oldest, he's 32 now, he wouldn't behave & do his work! I had to take off work, go to school until he got embarrassed enough to do the right thing! I went in my bathrobe a couple times! I was determined to make him do better!

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I have done this to my son, and let me tell you, he got the point real fast! There is more to this story then what has been told. My advice is tow the line. If you do not want mommy siting with you next year, which will mess the rest of your high school years up, tow the line and just deal with what you have too. I'm going to guess that you are not doing your work in class so do your self a favor and just do the work.

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