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What should I do about my sister?

my youngest sister after knowing this shady looking guy for 3 weeks got pregnant with his child and he turned out to be a monster! he resents having to take care of my sister because she's pregnant, doesn't want to take her to the doctor he leaves her at her house that she pays for that he lives at while he goes out to clubs and the worst of it is just because my sister is pregnant by him she feels some entitlement to stay with him. I've talked to her many times about him but I guess I'm not saying convincing enough words to get her to wake up and smell the roses! anyone have any ideas? also adding to all this he's a "Reformed" Crack head that is now addicted to pain meds.

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Plant some drugs in his car and phone the police about a suspicious person

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That's bad... but funny
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tell her to go see a therapist or somthin

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Oh my...I'm so sorry that this happened because it affects you too. Well you need to tell her that if she's going to have this baby then that a*s that got her pregnant needs to get out of her life. It would be bad for the baby and she would be better off without him.

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He sounds like a total @hole, tell her to stop seeing this person and look into filing for child support.

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Pay a bunch of gang members to shoot him up. Or just inform the mob that he called them p*****

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Take your sister to social services. They can tell her all the rights and options she has. The best, hardest, and bravest thing she can do is get away from him and contact a crisis pregnancy charity that will take her in and take care of her until the baby is born. Then she could place this child with a loving couple who would be overjoyed to raise him/her.
I hate to point out that the most likely cause of death during pregnancy is murder. Get her away from him!

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Take her away from him that guy sounds like a creep

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I have learned you can never tell anyone anything, especially if their loved one is bad. I have found it more effective, to start asking them how they feel about the bad or neglectful treatment by their lover and this gets them to thinking about it on their own. Otherwise, you are just beating your head against the wall. Good luck.

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Tell her if she stays with him and has a kid that kid is gonna grow up seeing how its father treats people and then that child will repeat those bad habits in his life, the child will be set up to fail. If its a boy he's gonna treat women like crap and do to them what dad does to her. If its a girl she's gonna have no self worth and think she's only there to be walked all over. You can't raise a child in a bad environment like that unless you want the cycle to repeat itself.

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