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emmy_faith: 4 months ago | Last edited at 8:12PM on 1/10/2013

So a girl at school is starting rumors about me and I did nothing to her and every time I think about it I start crying what do I do?

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preppyboy: 4 months ago

report the girl to the principle and the principle can end it pretty fast, in the meantime, find someone you can tell your problems to and see if they can be a shoulder to cry on for now, it seems like you need someone to be there for you right now.

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emmy_faith: 4 months ago

Thx
I will I just for know y she do it.

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preppyboy: 4 months ago

people do things like that for alot of reasons, usually to generate attention or hurt someone else, pay no mind to them, they're bullies who arent worth your time, i know that rumors hurt, but you know the truth, so dont let them get you down

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chihuahualover97: 4 months ago

All the principal will do is give her a warning. Either tae matters into your own hands or if you have an older brother or sister have them threaten her. I had my brother say something to a kid that wouldn`t leave me alone and now the kid is afraid to even look at me.

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101DreamGirl101: 4 months ago

They give warnings but they never stop it or do anything about bullying cause it happens 24/7

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chihuahualover97: 4 months ago

exactly

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101DreamGirl101: 4 months ago

Even though it never happens to me.....

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chihuahualover97: 4 months ago

It happened to me but it was a guy not a girl.

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101DreamGirl101: 4 months ago

I am not popular and I am a cheerleader and I never get bullied ....I don't get wt is wrong with me

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chihuahualover97: 4 months ago

You probably aren`t stuck up like a lot of cheerleaders.

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101DreamGirl101: 4 months ago

I know we have nine cheerleaders and there is only 4 cheerleaders that are not stuck up

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chihuahualover97: 4 months ago

Wow. Pretty much ALL of the cheerleaders at my school are stuck up.

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APSheets1110: 4 months ago

if you just want to know why she said it, a school counselor may be a better option, but they have policies that protect you guys from being picked on, because people have actually gotten so upset by this stuff, that sadly, they take their own life. Happened to a sophomore during my senior year at high school, but that was over her boyfriend breaking up with her because he wanted to go to college far away.

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keypeel: 4 months ago

No no no do NOT get an older sister or brother to threaten. I have been in this situation before and I threatened to punch her and she just turned it right around and got me in trouble. Just tell your parent actually and get a formal complaint to the school.

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Sparta: 4 months ago

I agree with keypeel. Violence is never the second OR first option. The Principal and teachers won't do anything, but the counsler will. She will actually be reported to the counslers office so you can talk it out.

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craigsmom: 4 months ago

Confront the girl. See what she has to say. It may even be that you are wrong, and it isn't her who started the rumors. You never know, she may end up feeling badly once confronted, and being made aware how much the rumors hurt you. Maybe she can somehow retract them, to an extent? Good luck.

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CarlosBernal: 4 months ago

Start a rumor about her

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101DreamGirl101: 4 months ago

Then that would be considered as Drama.....so....that is it a good idea

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CarlosBernal: 4 months ago

Yea drama is the best thing

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101DreamGirl101: 4 months ago

No it is not

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101DreamGirl101: 4 months ago

Wait a min....ur joking......I just read ur profile

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CarlosBernal: 4 months ago

Maybe

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JBluverr1: 4 months ago

Haters are going to hate babe. Just move on. It's probably going to get harder if the rumor goes all around. But pleeeease do not harm yourself in anyway possible. Just either confront her or ignore her. If you leave it alone, she'll just get tired and stop.

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cowman101: 4 months ago via iPhone

maybe she likes you and just doesn't know how to express herself..nevertheless, that rumor she started spreading was WRONG! .

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tic_tac: 4 months ago

Tell the principal...

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no1kiwi: 4 months ago via iPhone

Befriend her !
Remember this! You have to kiss a$$ while waiting to kick a$$ !!!

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TheZ: 4 months ago via iPhone

When you cry, the hater wins. You have to stand up for yourself, rally your friends to your cause and face down the hater. Grow a little thicker skin, it will serve you well.

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scarlettbelle: 4 months ago

Just relax and then the next day go to her and say why are you spreading rumors about me? And then have a talk and stuff. If it doesn't work then tell teachers, moms, dads, or principals.

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XxNightWolfxX: 4 months ago

You know that none of the rumors are true. So, that's all you need to know. If people want to believe a rumor by a pathetic girl, then let them believe it, but ignore them. Don't let them bring you down. Be strong and keep your head held up high. Never take revenge though, 'cause you end up with a ton of regrets. You can also go to the principal and tell him/her about the whole situation, but I doubt that he/she will do anything about it. When I was getting bullied 24/7 at school, I told the principal, but he didn't do anything. I just had to teach myself how to be strong.

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Sincerity: 4 months ago

Good advice.

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XxNightWolfxX: 4 months ago

Thanks :)

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emmy_faith: 4 months ago

Thx and srry about what happened to u

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XxNightWolfxX: 4 months ago

No problem, and thanks,,, I'm sorry about what's happening to you too. I hope everything just turns out okay for you, which it will; 'cause everything does get better in the future.

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emmy_faith: 4 months ago

Thx

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ceili: 4 months ago

go and say ha why are you telling rumors about me
she will stop you can do it

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Sincerity: 4 months ago

This just breaks my heart. This happened to me too. I had to make a decision to become a very good actress and walk into that school with my head held up high, as if I didn't have a care in the world. I laughed with other friends and kept very very busy with activities. During that week the rumor died down because I was acting so secure. So while at school, be the best actress in the world. When at home, get the sadness out of your system if you need to cry then cry. If you do this, the end of next week it will be over with and she will look like the liar that she is. It will work.

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emmy_faith: 4 months ago

Thx and srry about what happened to u

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Sincerity: 4 months ago

I'm sorry about what's happening to you! A guy went to school on a Monday and told the whole school I had done things with him that were not true and everyone was staring at me and whispering when I walked in. It was awful. But by the end of the week, no one believe him by the time I acted like he was a liar and I never let anyone see me upset, even my friends unless they were at my house I had a friend I told and she helped me. This girl will get what's coming to her because whatshe did will come back on her but much worse and then she will know how it feels.

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Christian15Ramirez : 4 months ago via Android

if you told ppl and no one does anything pop open a can of whoop tail

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DJNicky42: 4 months ago

Just try to ignore her. Your real pals won`t believe them and who cares what other people think? Unless it`s about, other 'things'. If it is, whoop her.

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Butterscotch1: 4 months ago

Make a rumor about her that's I would do.

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GYMNASTICSGIRLXD: 4 months ago

Report her to a teacher or someone like that and if that doesn't work ignore her she'll get bored and stop if she doesn't get a reaction

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shannonmacri: 4 months ago

Can you tell us what the rumor is? That can make a big difference how I'd handle it.

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the_wise_man: 4 months ago

Make her an offer she cant resist.

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regee443: 4 months ago

DON'T snitch cause it may make it worse just confront her or beat that ass if so but if you go to a ghetto school just talk to her

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Floppa1993: 4 months ago

deal with it yourself, people suck... you will learn of this soon

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WhisperedSecrets: 4 months ago

I definitely had my share of bullying and rumors during school, and for a while I really let it get to me. But sometimes people make of you because they're jealous. And if that's not the case, just pretend to not care. If you pretend not to, eventually you'll see they're idiots showing off to their friends. Because apparently it makes you 'popular' to be mean. T-T

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liaxiong: 4 months ago

Well, first are you a new girl? 0.o sorry most new girls get picked on at times. And second she probably thinks you're really beautiful, that's why she picks on you because she can't top you. Rumors are danger zones, for it to die down. Ignore her, ignore her rumors but on the other hand if you choose to get rid of the rumors. You will then have to stand up to her. Don't let her be the power over you. Hopes this help.

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alajaoffley: 4 months ago

first tell her to back off. confront the bitch. that's what I would do. look if you know its not true and you are to scared to confront her then ignore it. you have your friends who know you that's all that matters. screw the rest of the people. your not here to impress girls like her.

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leany: 4 months ago

amen then hit her

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Nessa_Hk16: 4 months ago

Tell someone, depending on the rumor you can get this girl in some trouble.

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skellet1314: 4 months ago

it's ok i go through the same thing and my mom said that if u keep act like u don't care and they will stop because they know it dont bother u. oh ya i'd tell them (i think u dropped something and they'll say what and u say your IQ)

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leany: 4 months ago

do not snitch hit her in the face it will be ok

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stupidpink: 4 months ago

Don't let it get to your head. Tell someone! Make sure to confront people and tell them it isn't true.

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