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Depends on what he did. Some actions are not very forgivable. Or at least, forgivable but not worth maintaining the relationship.

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he kissed my bestie in front of me
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And he's your boyfriend? Was it a friendly cheek kiss, or a kiss on the mouth? Was he intentionally trying to make you mad?
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idk if he was trying to get me mad but making out
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Then, assuming you two are in a relationship, he's being immature and disrespectful of that relationship. Whether or not he knew you were there.

If he's just someone you have a big crush on, then he is not "reserved" for you so its really not your concern.
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well we are but he tells me he loves and shows me but not all the time i got in 21 fights for him and when someone does something to me he does it more wrost..
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Then you need to evaluate whether you enjoy being with him, or if he's hurting you. Ignore what he says - go by his actions. Does he act like he loves you? Does he respect you? Is he honest with you? Do you enjoy your time with him? Are YOU respectful and honest with him? You need to figure out what you are and are not willing to compromise on.
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.... well im the best as eveyone says and on12.12.12 he ignored me and didnt talk to me for days and my bday is coming up and i dont know what to do..
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Like I said. No one can decide what to do but you. Figure out the situation for yourself. And don't be prideful - be honest.
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ya okay and were do you live
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In the States. Northeast, to be exact.
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okay....
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Sorry if I'm a lil harsh but that dude sounds like a major ass , u don't go doing things like that , it's jst wrong, ppl like that deserve to get knocked on their asses an made a example of .
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Forget.

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really....
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Yup. Why remember bad things in the past? Look into the future!
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ya
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forgive and forget

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No one ever actually forgets, so what does that leave you with?

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okay i will think about it...:(
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Forgive but never forget...

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agreed
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Would depend on the mistake?
Small one: forgive&forget.

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he kissed my best friend in my face and has pics with her..:(
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Say Bye! Someone like that not worth your time nor energy. That's just cruel.
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ya..
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You may want to consider just WHY your "best Friend" went along with this also??
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well she siad he did it frist but i said ''it takes to bitch''.....
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So? What did you do?
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Forgive!

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agreed
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Forgive, That is what an awesome person does.

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Or that is what a door mat does ;)
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In this case seems you've allready come to the right conclusion!
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Don't force yourself to do either, if that isn't how you honestly feel. I don't know what you should do, since I don't know anything about the situation.

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dont forgicve cuz he treats you like craop

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i was gonna write you forget
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Forgive, but NEVER forget.

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You can forgive if you choose, good luck forgetting it. You certainly do not have to put up with any of it or keep either one of these people in your life if you don't want to. It might be difficult to trust again but that is really a personal thing.

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Here's some advice a friend gave me you can forget what someone said, you can forget what they did but you'll never forget how they made you feel. It's up to you what you want to do. Good luck I know how you feel.

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thanks..<3
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LydiaFernandez

Yolo girl. Yolo

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yup...
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Adios! So forget!

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hell ya..<3
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NEVER FORGIVE. Honestly, if he loved you, he wouldn't of made the mistake in the first place.

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ok well u should i answered this i looked t someone the comments tp see if u said wht he did and if he kissed ur bff in front of u and we 2 were dating id say ask him why he would do tht so or not making mistake wit lossing him but at the same time u should forget meaning "forget HIM"

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cuzz my bff went up to him... and thanks for the tip....
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wat he do??????????????????????
an it dont matter wat he did forgive ur betta than him an wen u forgive u show ur betta than him, ok! :)

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kissed ma bestie..;[
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sagittarius1997

Forgive but don't forget.

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It depends on what he did.

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kisses ma bestie..
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It's hard to say for me. I try to forget but it's really hard sometimes. Bad memories or thoughts always cross my mind. Try to forgive. they deserve a second chance...sometimes.

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