Listen to music that is happy!!! Talk to friends!!! Find a guy/girl as your girlfriend/botfriend to jsut tell everything to. Like in the movies. I actually believe the movies can be like real life or how could we even come up with the ideas of 'pefect love' if it didn't exist, you know? Anyways, I'm not going to get off topic. :) Find someone to talk to
Live in the now, don't get preoccupied with the past or the future. Live for today, as they say. Get to know and love yourself, find something positive and productive to invest your energy in, i.e. painting, taking up the guitar, meeting new people, etc.
Take some time each day to yourself to just think about everything good in life. Think of ways to make your life better and don't hesitate to get started and make it happen. And as for your thinking time it's better to be outside and maybe with some music.
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Last edited at 6:42PM on 1/12/2013
For one thing no one is positive and happy 100% of the time. If something bums you out let it for a short period of time. Then figure out a new plan to get what and go for it. Honestly I left plan A and Plan B ALONG time ago. I think I might be on plan V by now. When I get past plan Z I will go to plan AA or A1 I haven't decided yet.
The thing is life is ever evolving. When something knocks you down you catch your breath and get back up again and move on. That is what life is all about. That is how we learn.
Creating your reality is one of the most empowering things you can do. You can look at a situation and see the good or you can look at the same situation and choose to see the bad. Often, your view of what’s happening is filtered through the lens of your thoughts.
Positive thoughts create more abundance. If you want better relationships, to be more successful in your career or to find a level of happiness that brings you peace and comfort, then focusing on what is right, on what is positive in your life, is a good start.
Negative thoughts, on the other hand, contribute to feelings of dissatisfaction, disappointment and defeat. You think the worst – and then it happens. Learning how to change your negative thoughts is the difference-maker between living a life filled with frustration and one filled with confidence.
I know if I had enough money to pay bills, and help my kids succeed Id b happy. taking a vacation once in a while without getting behind on a car payment would b awesome. whoever said money couldn't buy happiness was ungrateful and never without it. they lied. TIP: make lots of money or some times your gonna havta fake it