you sound so spoiled. my parents are divorced for 6 yrs, and in the past 5, i am lucky if i see my dad 2 weeks total out of a yr. ever since the divorce he feels that a 3 hour drive is not worth seeing his only daughter. i dont blame the divorce, i blame him, but if divorce never happen, i be in same house with him, so. . .
and there is not much you can do, it is their life, their marriage. besides, you are at least 13, so only a few yrs to go then you on you own anyway, you cant wait it out?
You want to live in a broken home, that's nice. They'll probably get divorced without your help, the divorce rate is over 60%, then you can spen the week with one parent and the weekends with the other, but wait..what if mom and dad decide to remarry and your new step parent is jealous of you !!! Good luck with your manipulation, I'm guessing you're going to need it, being a stepchild and everything.
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I understand that your house is divided against itself, but if you don't mind me asking, Why in the world do you want your parents divorced? There could be a lot of reasons why your parents are fighting. Have you bothered to ask? If your parents are having issues with one another, I would suggest that they get marital counseling, or family counseling. Also, let me impart some wisdom onto you as a final note. A child has the ability to learn from an adult, but an adult is also learning. Your parents were once children and are still learning. Even though you are a child, your parents can learn from YOU! I suggest that you tell them how you feel when they fight in front of you. You HAVE to communicate with them, and you must have the resolve to do so. Now is not the time to split up!! I know that parents can get pretty scary. Trust me. I was a meek and quiet youth. I didn't say much about how I felt growing up, but I don't want you to make the same mistake I made.
You are a piece of work, you want your parent divorced portraying this horrible family life, you hate your 6 year old sister cause she gets you in trouble, you're 14 grow up! You have no life experience, you have no clue. Just the fact that you're gonna come on here and tell the world how you hate your 6 year old sister, a 6 year old who is likely trying to see you as a role model and then you ask the world how to get your parents divorced! Wow your amazing! Selfish much!
I understand you. I had the same thing. It hurts when you hear them scream at each other and make threats. But when they get divorced it hurts worse. Every night I herd my parents Argue and yell. Then my dad would go off and drink and come back somewhat drunk......I don't want to sy what usually happened next. But when my dad left.....I cried myself to sleep. Really your parents do need to divorce Even tho it hurts, if they keep arguing some day some body is going to get REALLY mad then some body will end up hurt. Talk to your mom about it or your dad talk to one who won't hurt you. Now I have a step dad and he is great! He loves us like a real father shoud.