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allinall77

My boyfriend won't let me see his phone?

He says I should trust him..but the fact that he won't let me see his phone makes me want to see it more. He can see my phone idk. It hurts my feelings a lot. Why do you think he won't let me see it? He also says it's healthy for all relationships to have privacy. Is that true? Oh yeah and we are engaged.

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If he won't let you see his iPhone he has something to hide, then you shouldn't let him see you, relationships are not about secrets...

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Back at the top : )
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Lol...
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I think he's hiding something.

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mankilla444

grab him but his shadingels and tell him i want to see your phone now!!!

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This just reminds me of that youtube video called, "Asking All Them Questions" At least I think thats what its called. Anyhow he must be hiding something and you should find out what it is, but don't do it without permission.

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omg lol haha wow angel now you got that stuck in my head....why you asking all them questions making statements asumin!
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I remember Jake and MIchael sang that on Sunday with the lips and everything
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hahaha I showed that to my mom and she said I was an idiot
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That song is awesome! How could she say that?! (I am not sure about you though) :D
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Hahaha no every time I think of rise of guardians I think of you guys
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Yea, we were laughing every couple of seconds in the theater. I wonder how many people wanted to rip our heads off:) then feed our fingers to Cupcake (sorry animated me)
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wow. kk well I just do
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I brought lemon drops to school and Maddi went crazy because she remembered Jack again.
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tell her that I am going to have his children
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Either he's hiding something from you or he just wants you to trust him..
You could either look at his phone while he's sleep or you could just trust him..

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If he is like me he just want to have his phone with him at all times. I trust me friends but I don't let them use my phone either.

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Yes...I agree.
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He tells you one thing, but does another. In a relationship, trust is very important. Make sure to tell him, I cant trust you, if you act like your hiding something..

Plus, if he is hurting your feelings, he is not worth it. He is hiding something. I suggest either breaking up with him, or having a serious talk with him.

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He probably is hiding something. But as a guy, I wouldn't want you on my phone not because i'm hiding something but because it's my PHONE.

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That is not good he is either talking to a different girl or even a guy maybe or he's watching something that is PG-13 or it could be a good reason for example: A present, surprise, planing a party for you, getting a every kiss begins with kay necklace. Hope this have helped : )

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Just steel his phone.

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that's not cool
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There are a few things that belong to me that I don't like anyone messing with, and these are: my vehicle, my sewing machine, my art and my phone. These things belong to me and I do not want anyone tampering with them because then I have to fix their blunders. Im not sure if your boyfriend is the same way or not. Decide if you trust him or not.

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Yep....some stuff is just off limits.
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i think he just wants you to trust him and he might be talkin to others though just forget abot it and stop letting him see yours give him a reason to worry

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he def hiding something. secrets are always bad. been there done that. I forgave once but If things would happen again it's gonna be him hitting the bricks :-) good luck

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girls think way to hard on this.
its his phone.. hes not hiding anything. its just his only private zone. that's it.
kinda like guys and their food..
don't touch it lol.

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Privacy is very important. My girlfriend and I have enough respect for each other to not look through each others messages. We have a perfectly healthy relationship and have been dating for 3.5 years. HOWEVER, if he has a history of being dishonest or is all-around shady then maybe you should be worried. Space and Privacy can be very important for some guys.

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Do you always get everything you want ? Do you get mad when you don't get your way ? Did he ask you to see your iPhone ? If yes...then you might have a case...if no...then maybe not so much. If you choose to share yours, then cool, but it's not fair to say that he is hiding something without any proof. Some folks are just not comfortable with so much sharing. Not saying he isn't hiding something now, but the thing about accusing someone is you should have proof first....or else you become the one in the wrong by being unable to trust someone you say you care about. If you think he is dishonest and hiding something why would you want him anyway ? Find someone you can trust and forget him. You will be much happier in the long run. Don't let it hurt your feelings too much without good cause.

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I had a girlfriend I cut out of my life over such childish issues
if you don't trust him move on.. you will only make both your and his miserable.. Poor guy :(

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Drop him like a hot potato!

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False, I never let my gf see my phone, yet I have nothing 2 hide, it's just a guy thing, chillax

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Don't him see your phone. Turn about is fair play. See how he likes it.

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I broke it off with my guy because he started getting calls late at night, and said it was his co-workers, but he had to run outside and would not let me see his phone. He would fight me to keep me from seeing his phone. Now tell me if it's just a co-worker what is he fighting me for! Leave that man alone! Trust is everything in a relationship, no trust no relationship!

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