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I had a friend who lied to me so many times, and i trusted her, and it hurt on what she lied about how do i deal with it

i thought of her like a sister but know she hurt me to the point where i just want to die i know this can not be healthy

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You need to realize she is the one with the problem, not you. Anyone who would not only lie but lie to someone who considers them a close friend is not a good person. They have no idea what they just lost. You need to put the blame on her and not you. Most people who do something like have been doing so for a while and move from "friend" to "friend" using them. You have learned something, even though it is a hard lesson, but now you must take that lesson and move on.

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I would give the friendship a break, if not end it.

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With friends like that who needs enemies ? Time to let that "friendship" go.

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She's not your friend, you have more integrity than her, of which she has none, seek a better quality of persons to hang with, you're better than this...

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rbeezy

Sorry but that's not a friend. If you talk to her and tell her how bad she hurt you and she continues to do it let it go...

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Rainbow_Brite

Unless there is a reason that your friend keeps lieing to you, then I do not recommend being friends with that person anymore; especially because of how they are making you feel. But first, I recommend having a talk with your friend and try to get yourself to understand their point of view on why they keep lieing to you. I recommend trying to have an understanding of why your friend does what they do, before doing what I recommended earlier.

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confront her, talk to her, make her understand, tell her u r hurt.

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It is not your fault she lied and you did not do anything to cause her to betray you. You have to decide if you are going to continue to allow her to lie to you or confront her or distance yourself from her. You need a good friend who will treat you right and always tell you the truth. Take care.

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Don't let her go I watched a movie called cyber bully and it is exactly the same as you two just have a long hard truth talk with her and look her in the eyes and ask her then do this: bring juice pour it in two cups and say: "from now on lies cannot be in our friendship anymore as we start again and heal our bond as best friends forever as we toast we have to tell the cold and bloody truth from now on!" bang cups together and drink it and from then on no more lies i really hope this had helped : ) hope u guys are friends/sisters again.

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Next time she said says something makesure she says swear to god.

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