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How can I get over a guy? please.

im so broken hearted. he lead me on and told me all this stuff and now hes telling me the opposite. im crying my eyes out. I just want it to all be over, please how can I get over him?

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It just takes time. But you need to do some soul searching.

Think hard about what you are REALLY crying over. Consider this: is he worth crying over if he lied and disrespected you so much?

It's hard, but maybe you should consider that what you're upset about is the loss of the IDEA that he was a great guy, because he certainly doesn't sound like one in real life. Be glad that you found out now, and not months down the road. No one deserves to be treated like that, and you shouldn't want someone who does.

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Your answers always are so worth reading, very cool. Nicely put.
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Aww thanks. It took a lot of years to figure that out, I only hope it saves one person a little bit of heartache.
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Time is what heals the best. But, to get over him faster, ask yourself this: Is this your worth? To be treated badly by someone who does not care? Are you not worth more? My mom would tell me to not let any man put me down. It's not worth it. You are worth gold, don't settle on anyone!! He doesn't deserve you!

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Good mom!
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surround yourself by hot guys >:) that's what I did and so many of them turned out to be really sweet people. I have completely forgotten about my ex and wouldn't get back together with him evene if he asked.

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BUT FORGETTING SOMEONE U LOVE IS difficult/ :(
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Yes, it is, data. But, you have to change your thoughts. You have to remind yourself that you are worth more and that God has someone else MUCH better for you. Don't settle and look forward to a much better guy!!
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yea~~~~~:D. :P
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yes, there is no need to waste time on someone who doesn't love u any more, just care the one who love u dear. T^T

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how i did it is i deleted the pictures the number and just focused on other things and told myself that there was better. and your to beautiful to be treated like that. pick yourself up and he will notice it dost faze you and he will be heart to know he left a strong beautiful girl.

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yes, focus on other things. aha. T^T, EVEN IT IS NOT EASY.
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yes it is people worry to much that's why you delete everything even the mental image and not even care why should you care for someone who hurts you its obviously not going to work just going to get worse! true. (:
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Look forget about him he is a real coward making a girl cry he doesnt know how great you are just dont talk to him and move on find someone else

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One day at time Sugar !

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Move on, he does not deserve ur tears, try n do the things u like enjoying n do thm, u kno, just do u, do not waste ur time cryin over someone who's not worth it, no matter the pain, because life's 2 short 2 just waste another minute, live life the fullest n be happy with the people u love^_^

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live life the fullest
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Its the chance you gotta' take, there will be good times and bad times. The good times just won't feel the same with out the bad times to balance them out.

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You could always think of the reason why you all broke up or whatever and how it will benefit you in the future.

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A girl once told me "the best way to get over a guy is to get under another one"

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