A good mother is one who isn't a teenager, and who can support their own child and not rely on anyone else. Accepting is another huge thing, aswell as willing to help their kid through things, and can stay calm and knows how to properly discipline their child. Another is allowing their child to chose what they believe in, rather than forcing their religion into their childs mind right from when they're born.
A good mother is loving, caring, sensitive, responsible, not afraid to admit faults, willing to play with her family, available, respectful to the child's father...whether he is in the picture or not....
someone who listens to their daughter/son and show them support, they also put their children first before (ANYTHING), that especially means before boyfriends/girlfriends. They try to support their children's decisions and show them full trust, they also try hard to protect their children from any danger, even a broken heart if possible. They tell them they love them and they always show gratitude to God for giving them their children, their miracle and their life. A good mother always tries best to show their son/daughter they appreciate having them in their life.
But being strict is not a very good opinion,because it makes ur child hate u.Its a fact.Achieve respect and make them obey u by approaching in a friendly manner.Be reasonable and understand them. Also respect them so they respect u back.
She should not rush her children, not be able to pick out their flaws, she should stand by her children's side no matter what, she should fight for her kids, she shouldn't be making fun of them, or she shouldn't be talking about them, criticizing them, and feeling sorry for them. Those are the things that my mom did to me. A good mother should respect her own kids. She should be always with them no matter what. She should accept her own kids just the way they are. No matter what they turn out to be. Encouraging, strong, reliable, responsible, loyal, fair, honest, affectionate, loving, caring, giving, helpful, sympathetic, protective, and must be inspiring to her own.
A good mother has the ability to take any child"s personality and mold that child with ethics, and moral character without enforcing her own personality onto the child. She has the responsibility to lead that child into adulthood and to teach them not to be a burden on society, yet let the child know that being a good citizen is the least he or she should be to that society. A mother must build a child self esteem every chance they can, and never tear it down. Even when a child does wrong, there is a positive lesson to be learned. A good mother makes sure her child's psyche is as intact on the last time they spoke to each other as it was on the day she heard her child's first cry, A child must be taught that before they can ever say "I will love, honor and cherish you, he or she must first love, honor and cherish themselves.Last of all but most important to me: Make sure your child can control his universe without hurting another's and that in the Universe is a force; call him G_d, Mother Nature, the Soul's of one's Ancestors whatever your proclivity; but make sure your child know's there is some One who is bigger, stronger, and wiser than they are.
"Reflecting on the social pressure on mothers to restrict themselves to only raising children, my mother always said that a mother also owed it to her children to go out to make sure that the world was good enough for them."
#1) Nice #2) A little bit strict #3) Smart #4) Caring (of course) #5) Helpful #6) NOT lazy #7) ALWAYS TELLS TRUTH NO MATTER WHAT EXAMPLE: THE TOOTH FAIRY #8) Chooses husband wisely and carefully (like always) ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ My mom almost has all of it, she doesn't have #7, she does tell the truth, but when I was little, it was a total different story... :p
A woman who cares and tries her hardest to give her child a good, healthy life and does everything so her child is happy. It doesn't matter what she buys her child, but what she feels and how she takes care of her child.
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a good mother will always care about you, love you and a mother always have the right to be strict so we can learn how to behave, things we shouldn't do, things we should do and if they are not strict we won't learn anything. I know it's kind of annoying when mom shouts or tells u not to do stuff or to do stuff u don't like but they do it so we learn and they will always want their children to be the best daughter/son ever.