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StefanSkarbinski

Guy flirting with gf...i'm getting upset not sure what to do..

So my gf met an old friend not so long ago... and he kept flirting with her and telling her he loved her... even though he knew she was taken by me... I told my gf to tell him to stop cause i'm not comfortable... and she said she wasn't either... well they still speak and he is still flirting with her...I want to kill him for some reason...just because he is flirting with my gf...my gf says i'm being an idiot for wanting to kill him...or have a talk with him... he's flirting with her..when I see it..I just get upset..the thing is I trust her fully so idc about that..but when I see or hear of him flirting...I get upset....what can I do??

thing is I spoke to her about it...she cannot see that he is still flirting.. I told her i'm a guy I know it when I see it...she says he is just being friendly...

I said what if a girl was flirting with me....and then you knew she was still flirting with me...she said I would want to kill her...I said exact same thing here..

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You can't stop his flirting. And if your girlfriend won't either, it might be time to move on, with no killing involved whatsoever. Good luck.

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M4RxDR

As long as she's not flirting with him it's okay. Or just tell him it's bothering you.

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Don't start a fight or anything but message or text him if you have his number or Facebook or something and tell him to back off without making a huge deal out of it

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It doesn't matter as long as shes not flirting back

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icic6772

If she starts flirting with him you guys probably would need to break up.

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I know how you feel a guy at my wifes work had a thing for her and I was ready to go. Like he was making negative comments about me behind my back. Luckily for him he got fired but man dont mess with my girl. I have zero tolerance. Like the other day a guy tried to get into her car. Man if I ever see that gu he wont live to see another sunrise. You just dont mess with my woman. Its normal nature mirrors this behavior, the lion defends his pride. I say just tell him to keep the conversation so far from flirtatious that there is not a chance of mistaking it as such.

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