if a person cheats they truly lost something in that. if i were to be cheated i would tell her: "you have lost my trust respect and many more by cheating, i was always a loser and tried so hard to always win fair. cheating doesn't make you win anything but the fact you were the true loser in that, I've had so many losses in my life by cheating and won't allow it. i am sorry, goodbye"
Yeah, it's kinda weird isn't it. The primal instinctive nature of any species is to reproduce so as to continue our existence on this planet. Social norms like monogamy and social stigmas like cheating have absolutely no chance of suppressing that desire even if the person is successful at not acting on it. I'm not married, and if I did get married I would have no intention of being unfaithful. But I've heard a lot of people argue and make good points on why that's unrealistic. Maybe the safe play is just to never get married.
Actually I'm 1 of the few people in the world who has never cheated but I think it is because I grew up seeing my mom give someone her heart and then getting it smashed because of infidelity so I grew up with that mental picture in knowing it is wrong
I have in the past , and I till this day feel guilty as heck :/ but that was my younger days like when I was 16 an dumb. But I have Not cheated ever since ! I am happily in a relationship with the guy whom I've grown up with for 10 years :D
yes, it's an underlying reaction to be willing to lose that person. big risk. you have to be willing and wanting to make the switch, or it's immaturity and arrogance. i'm older now, i would never do it again.
Yes I did in the beginning of the first year . That was 20 years ago and we have been married for 13 years.. She cheated with a married man 6 months before we got married and then again she cheated with the same guy 6 years into our marriage and then again she cheated with my best friend at 12 years of marriage that lasted until the 13 th year when she filed for divorce. Did I mention he was also married? Oh yea and the guy was the best man in our wedding!!! But other than that she has never cheated!!! That's what she told me!!! Are you kidding me?!?!? Tramp!!!