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How to make sure my friend doesn't take over

im having a double b-day party with my BFF i want to make sure she realizes that its my b-day party 2 and not all about her.

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Always mention WE, for example, say something like Hey, what should we do for our bday

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Try having separate times to open presents and such so you both have a moment to shine

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yeah,i have a bff just like that, she can be such a jerk sometimes and sometimes not. i get really angry sometimes and ask her stuff like what should we do now? if she suggests something without asking you first, just say "we both have to agree on something since its both OUR birthday." i know its hard sometimes, taking a stand but trust me, only 10 seconds of self confidence, say it really boldly and make sure that she gets it.

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why would you do this and immediately have problems with her taking over?
Have your own party

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I agree with live to love and bob U Should try doing that and if that doesnt work out tell her what troubles you

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