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I'm with my boyfriend and father of my child,but I'm secretly falling in love with my best guy friend,what should I do?

My boyfriend can be a bit of a jerk sometimes. He criticizes me a lot,always having something rude to say about me.But,then when I think of breaking up with me,he will go and do something sweet,then the cycle starts again. My best guy friend,whom I have known forever (our mothers are bestfriends) has been helping me a lot with my daughter,and comforting me when me and my boyfriend get into arguments and what-not.In the past,he HAS told me he loves me more than a friend.I don't know what to do

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You need to separate yourself from this "friend" so you can sort your feelings out. Tell your friend you need time to think about how things are going right now, and you don't want to involve him in things that might come up. If you are still having these feelings for your friend, after he's out of the picture for a few months. Then maybe it is time to end your current relationship. You don't want to put yourself or your friend into a situation that would make you a cheater and him a home wrecker do you? I know if I were in your shoes I wouldn't. While you are taking this break from your friend, you need to bring these points up to your current boyfriend. Tell him you are un-happy and things need to change. If he is not willing to change his ways, then this is an obvious sign you don't want to spend the rest of your life with him.
If your current relationship ends, please don't go jumping back into another relationship right away. Good luck.

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well that doesn't sound like a very good boyfriend, I think a better question is ,are you happy in the relationship with the father?

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Thats very Hard Ill Say Talk to your Boyfriend About Why is he always Rude to you Becarful who u love

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No matter what you do , you have a child to think about. But I agree with cjkenkel.

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Sounds to me like your boyfriend knows how to "Play" you. You need to have some self respect and move on. I would NOT jump into a relationship with guy friend right away... but I would definitely step away from boyfriend. He doesnt respect you.

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