Does Maine recognize same sex marriages? Is that kind of marriage legally binding in Maine? If so then no you can't go some place else and marry a guy. Not w/o a divorce. If Maine doesn't recognize same sex marriage and all you did was go through a personal or religious ceremony, then it's only as binding as you want it to be, and I guess you could go ahead and hurt your female partners feelings, break her heart, betray her trust and marry a guy. Sheesh! You want it all, don't you?