With a genuine apology, a chance that you might be forgiven is always there no matter what kind of gift you carry, and cool flower for peace and love is a good idea. Apologies have to be heart-felt for them to maintain their meaning.
it depends with who if it was a dear friend then ur pretty much screwed but if he doesnt know the guy then the best way to get him back is to prove to him that ur sorry and u still like him if u have never kissed then i would suggest u ask him to talk to u alone then go for it and after that if he truly likes u he will forgive u but i warn u it might be to late and if it does work then he might throw ti in ur face from now on about how u cheated on him but if u really like him don't let that stop u from trying because it will prove to him that ur really sorry
Bring home the guy you cheated on him with, maybe all 3 of you can sit down and sing kumbaya. R-tard. you need to leave that man alone. You're the reason the good men like us have trust issues. And then you have these females saying "All men are the same" SMH
1 year ago
Last edited at 11:33AM on 1/15/2013
I cheated and in my relationship only apologizing and doing everything she likes and treating her nice help me to keep the relationship. let me tell you it was like 5 months ago it sometime creates tension but my point is it took her around a month or 2 to TRY to get over it, eventually she leaves it in the past because of her love she has to me and for this she had to actually meet the girl I cheated with and they spoke, the girl said she won't do anything else with me and my gf just said ok you better do that, and from my side I cut all communication with the other girl. don't get me wrong, I was lucky she forgave me and it wasn't easy. this are weeks or months are going to be the toughest and agonizing of your emotional life and maybe your life as it is.
I am not going to badge on you for cheating on your boyfriend, even though I have been cheated on and it feels horrible. Right now you are in a threshold (I know is so cliché, but keep reading). If you tell him the trust that all relationships are based on will diminish if not disappear all together. If you don't tell him you are not only hurting yourself but him too because every single good thing that he does to you in the back of your mind you will feel like you don't deserve it. Cheating is the biggest of all relationship cancers in the world and few relationships survive it. But it is important that you tell him what has happened. If your relationship is strong it will survive, if it is not then you have learned your lesson and he will learn it too. There are many reasons why people cheat so it would be unfair for me to judge you. But cheating is cheating at the end, and my motto is: there is no relationship without trust. Good luck.
Well you could try a apology but he would be as dumb as you if he ever forgave you for what you did i would leave your sorry ass and tell ya to have fun with your new man which probably won't want you anyways but good luck though ! Hah people like you should stay single ! Idiots
leave him alone!! you cheated its OVER!!! that was your choice! he deserves better than a cheater like you! i wish him the best of luck!!! dont get him a gift at all and if you do i hope hes smart and doesnt accept it!!
a gift?? you think a gift of any sort will make him forgive you for cheating on you...something so devastating such as cheating on someone your supposed to love should be something that can be forgiven but the person should not stay or get back with the cheating partner. why??-- because the cheater obviously doesnt truley love the cheated or else they wouldnt have cheated on the first place. ppl like that disgust me!! smh
1 year ago
Last edited at 12:11PM on 1/15/2013
An apology then maybe walk out the damn door and not show your face ever again.... once a cheater always a cheater and if you really cared for him you would not of done that foolish nonsense in the first damn place!
you can't buy love. why would you cheat in the first place that is not right at all. what has ever done to you to make you feel you need something more. you can't just get him a gift and expect him to be all like o baby you shouldn't have i forgive because you got me this. do you know bad that hurts, do you realize its going to be a long time before he can forgive you and trust you again. you may be able to forgive but you will never forget. and trust is a big chapter in relationships without it y'all aint going no where. you made stupid mistake to cheat on him and it was stupid of you to even ask what gift should you get him.
First you need to understand that what you did was a huge mistake and he SHOULDN'T forgive you. Really I think if you give him a really expensive gift than he'll think you're trying to BUY him back, the best you could probably do is just a heartfelt apology (I know that sounds cheesy)