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What do i do about this?

I am madly unconditionally in love with this guy who I'm almost 100% sure feels the same way. my only problem is that he has a girlfriend and feels like she deserves him when i can tell that this (not gonna say what i really wanna call her) chick is only going to hurt him (for all intents and purposes we will call him john.) i really do love him and ive told him and weve kissed but hes with her but he came and sat with me in lunch today when i was all alone (so cute) and i feel like theres this huge unspoken spark between the two of us and it almost seems like maybe just maybe he feels it too but he says that for now we should just be friends i know it SEEMS harsh to want them to break up so i can be there for him and have him see that im the one NOT her i mean they've dated before too and i told him i loved him and he didnt freak out i told him i was bi and he didnt freak out i mean i have told this guy so many things i normally dont even admit out loud to people i have known for years i just dont know what im supposed to do! somebody plssssss help meeeeeee!!!!!!! and if youre not going to give me a STRAIGHT ANSWER dont answer me at all

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If he loves you while he's with her, then he'll love someone else, while hes with you and If he cheats on her with you, He'll cheat on you with someone else.

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Just sit back and wait. He is with someone else and it is up to him to end that before going out with you. Whether or not you like his girlfriend is irrelevant, she deserves the common decency from him to do that. And if he isn't willing to break up with her, than maybe he isn't as into you as you think.

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