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timmybear: 4 months ago via iPhone

I'm bored with my girlfriend of 9 month. We see each other every weekend I'm 50 she's 45. There's no more mystery. I need help. I like her.

we live 90 miles apart

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briefandpointless: 4 months ago

just talk to her..she may feel the same way..

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timmybear: 4 months ago via iPhone

Open communication is always best

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Kuraithelion: 4 months ago

Perhaps you should try to get more appropriated? Such as moving in together, or doing something spontaneous! Something random always strikes odd fires. (But of course, this is coming from a 17 year old, hehe.)

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souixbeehoney: 4 months ago via iPhone

Youthful ideas prevail!

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Kuraithelion: 4 months ago

Hehehe.

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lynnchristoph: 4 months ago via Android

Help with what? At your age (& Im over 40) arent there better options than a website for relationship advice?

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timmybear: 4 months ago via iPhone

I'm looking for an unbiased opinion. Ya got one? Or was that it...

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AndrewBalkaran: 4 months ago

Cialis.

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timmybear: 4 months ago via iPhone

Good one

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AndrewBalkaran: 4 months ago

Haha. Listen bro make some time for your lady, romantic dinner or something. You can do it.

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pandapammy: 4 months ago

I would say ask her to move in

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timmybear: 4 months ago via iPhone

Move in are you crazy ?!!!haha

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TambreeVonVanity_six: 4 months ago

Well.. :/

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Poundcake17: 4 months ago

ask her to move in!!! ASAP! good luck! :)

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timmybear: 4 months ago via iPhone

What's moving in gonna do, I see to much of her now lol

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Poundcake17: 4 months ago

well i guess you don't love her as much.. nvm then haha

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souixbeehoney: 4 months ago via iPhone

Move on. Find a young chick that needs a Sugar Daddy. Buy her all the stuff she wants, sign over your house, bank account, and insurance to her. Watch her make a fool of you and I can assure you that you won't be bored for long! Duh!

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craigsmom: 4 months ago

You've been together nine months and you don't LOVE her? I think you know what you must do. There's no more mystery, no. That's the way it works. I think maybe you aren't the committing type.

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timmybear: 4 months ago via iPhone

Oh no I love her very much, maybe I am afraid to commit more of myself ;-(

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craigsmom: 4 months ago

Oh, well, you said you LIKE her. Yes, maybe that's it, eh?

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SabrinaShakeitoff: 4 months ago via Android

well, first off if you still wanna be with her then tell her you guys need to take a break but if that doesn't work then, I guess its better to just end it instead of hurting one of you

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harold808: 4 months ago via Android

I don't know how the mystery could be gone after only 9 months of weekends. It takes longer than that for the true personality to come out.
I would find some new activities to do that you both enjoy like tennis or dancing or go to an aquarium or zoo. You could plan a trip somewhere.
Or you could work on getting closer to her. Figure out her goals and your goals and work on weaving them together and making them come true.

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heartme: 4 months ago

Make things spicier. Sounds like your relationship is getting boring because you're doing the same thing... maybe try taking her out of town or a lil vacation. Or if you don't want to be with her DUMP HER! but be nice :)

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bikergirl40: 4 months ago

No more 'mystery' ??? Perhaps your relationship has slipped into the 'comfort' zone. Personally, THIS is the best part of our relationship .. THIS is where I like it the most.

I've been with my hubby for 37 yrs .. and we still are best friends. Although we retain our individuality, we still enjoy each others company. We have individualistic interests and we have interests that we share. We both ride motorcycles, and travel well together.

The biggest thing we share is the adoration for our family, and that we can laugh at each other, and ourselves .. a sense of humour is something we both have in common. The older we get, the more we depend on each for things like .. well, like .. ummmm .. well .. memory (for one).

Life is what you make it .. You can choose to become complacent .. or you can take the world by the horns and and just go for the ride. In my opinion, it's just nicer having someone to share that experience with.

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timmybear: 4 months ago via iPhone

Thank you so much heartfelt honest response

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