Beauty is in the eye bro. Now having said that, the unicorn we're always looking for is the girl who grew up unnattractive so nothing was ever handed to her and she didn't have people falling all over themselves trying to talk to her or be with her. I think we all know people like that- stuck up and full of themselves. Then, after she has grown up and matured and developed a great personality, BOOM, the ugly duckling phenom occures where she switches to contacts, loses the braces, and the acne clears up. The old timers at local watering hole tell stories of women like this existing. I hope they're right.
I'm a girl but I'm answer it anyway. I rather personality because in the end when you grew older with the person they would get all winkle and stuff. You won't cares about that. But personality should matter because someone like you for you not what you look like.