Who cares?!?!? I've been married 28 years. If you feel bad that your love is hurting, recognize that pain. Get back to the fact that you love each other. Then, plan to not repeat the mistakes. Blame is irrelevant. The discussion is about problem solving and planning for the future.
Just apologize. He might be waiting for YOU and if you don't do it it will keep going deeper under ground. If its not discovered soon it can stay buried and there will be no solution to the issue. Good luck!
it depends honestly. like today we got into an argument, and kind of no one say sorry, lol he said its over, and i was like fine, its over, and he was like someone is ready to leave, and i said well your mad for nothing, and then we just said i love you, sent our kissy face over skype, and a few cute more things and thats it :) it depends. its really not about who says it first, its about fixing the problem. i have said it when i was wrong and when i was right, just to end it and be happy, and he has done some :)
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Yes I've apologized first. And yes she's apologized first too. We make it a rule to never go to bed angry. Proverbs: pride makes you stupid. And prideful people don't want to apologize. So be slow to anger and listen to each other. Hope this helps.
I always say sorry after any argument I have with anyone. I don't normally stay angry with anyone for a long time, so it doesn't happen that I don't forgive someone anyway, but it does make it easier for me to forgive if they say sorry, too. I never like to leave bad air between me and another person, so I always try my best to fix it.