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GloriaParsons
GloriaParsons: 4 months ago

Will you apologize to your mate after the quarrel?

Who apologize first? You or your mate?

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Happy2BeHere2
Happy2BeHere2: 4 months ago

Who cares?!?!? I've been married 28 years.
If you feel bad that your love is hurting, recognize that pain. Get back to the fact that you love each other. Then, plan to not repeat the mistakes. Blame is irrelevant. The discussion is about problem solving and planning for the future.

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ShayJay: 4 months ago via Android
I love your answer.
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leone23
leone23: 4 months ago

i don't know what a quarrel is :o

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thatcrazygirl: 4 months ago via iPhone
Argument or fight
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leone23: 4 months ago
ohh ok, thanks ! :)
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TheGreatBambino
TheGreatBambino: 4 months ago | Last edited at 9:44PM on 1/16/2013

I don't quarrel. I talk with my "mate" .

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KilgoreTrout
KilgoreTrout: 4 months ago

I always apologize because I don't like fighting very much.

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Dolcemonserrat
Dolcemonserrat: 4 months ago

Your mate :) but it depends though.

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virginiagirl1998
virginiagirl1998: 4 months ago | Last edited at 9:47PM on 1/16/2013

Do you mean mate as in friend, or mate as in partner?

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thatcrazygirl
thatcrazygirl: 4 months ago via iPhone

Just apologize. He might be waiting for YOU and if you don't do it it will keep going deeper under ground. If its not discovered soon it can stay buried and there will be no solution to the issue. Good luck!

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TheForbiddenFollower
TheForbiddenFollower: 4 months ago

it depends honestly. like today we got into an argument, and kind of no one say sorry, lol
he said its over, and i was like fine, its over, and he was like someone is ready to leave, and i said well your mad for nothing, and then we just said i love you, sent our kissy face over skype, and a few cute more things and thats it :)
it depends. its really not about who says it first, its about fixing the problem.
i have said it when i was wrong and when i was right, just to end it and be happy, and he has done some :)

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rainnsurf
rainnsurf: 4 months ago via iPhone

The one who was wrong. It's about healing, not winning.

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DrKrav
DrKrav: 4 months ago via iPhone | Last edited at 9:55PM on 1/16/2013

Yes I've apologized first. And yes she's apologized first too. We make it a rule to never go to bed angry. Proverbs: pride makes you stupid. And prideful people don't want to apologize. So be slow to anger and listen to each other. Hope this helps.

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GregoryMedals
GregoryMedals: 4 months ago via Android

I never apologize because I'm always right

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GloriaParsons: 4 months ago
I thinks you must be a man, male chauvinism!
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tamlyn: 4 months ago via iPhone
Must be a very lonely life....
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Joshua_Bagel
Joshua_Bagel: 4 months ago via iPhone

Doesn't matter who's wrong. The man should be a man and say he's sorry.

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Happy2BeHere2: 4 months ago
As a woman...me too!
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Joshua_Bagel: 4 months ago via iPhone
Me too... What?
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Happy2BeHere2: 4 months ago
Me too..=..glad to say sorry to ease the hurt. Gender schmender. That's what people who care do.

Holy crud!!!!!! I just reported you! Stupid fat fingers!
Mods...forgive my booboo.

Josh, how ironic. "SORRY! My goof!"
Lol!
O.o. Irony indeed.
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Joshua_Bagel: 4 months ago via iPhone
That's no problem =)
I appreciate your feedback even more
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Happy2BeHere2: 4 months ago
Thank you! =)
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CountryGirl_Pride: 4 months ago
Why did I think this question said something about squirrels??
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Happy2BeHere2: 4 months ago
Idk, CGP, but Haha!
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CountryGirl_Pride: 4 months ago
Lol!
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Joshua_Bagel: 4 months ago via iPhone
Lmao
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bigicecreamlover
bigicecreamlover: 4 months ago

Well, it depends. I refuse to make an apology if it was not my fault.

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neighborlady
neighborlady: 4 months ago via iPhone

I apologize. My husband rarely does. It isn't very important for me to to be "right".

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beatriceeden
beatriceeden: 4 months ago

If it was my fault . I will apologize. If not. I won't apologize

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ShayJay
ShayJay: 4 months ago via Android

I have no problem with apologizing, even if I feel its not completely my fault. I feel sick to my stomach when I'm fighting with my loved ones.
Like Dr Phil says, "do you want to be right or happy".

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Happy2BeHere2: 4 months ago
Sometimes that old guy gets it right!
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Pontes
Pontes: 4 months ago

I always say sorry after any argument I have with anyone. I don't normally stay angry with anyone for a long time, so it doesn't happen that I don't forgive someone anyway, but it does make it easier for me to forgive if they say sorry, too. I never like to leave bad air between me and another person, so I always try my best to fix it.

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