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My boyfriend cheated on me but I forgave him but im scared and paranoid now. Help me :(

he had this girl on the side that he only used for one thing and that was when he was horny i wasn't sure if i should hae forgiven him and i love him i really do but im just so scared that another girl is gonna sweep him off his feet and take him away and im paranoid that his best friend is gonna take him away or that someones just gonna take hi in general. im jealous of everyone hes around since he lives an hour away and im not there with him its hard to keep an eyes on him, what should i do? i dont wanna lose him :(

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i agree with djh3van because you decided to stay with him thats how you feel and im sorry to tell you this but that feeling will not go away as log as your with him. honestly i think you should leave him because he doest deserve you and you dont deserve that type of actions from his side. look for someone else especially that wont live an hour away because thats how relationships get messed up. look for someone who lives close to u that you see everyday that you know wont do that or at least is more loyal and honest with you.

REMEMBER! there are many fish in the sea and that special someone you just dont know who will be

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Thank you<3
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sure hope that helped
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it did
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im glad
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You feel this because you decided to stay with him. I don't think staying with him is a good idea. Hope you be careful and don't get hurt again. the only thing you can do is trust him not to do it again.

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Talk to him and try to find out if he is cheating on you. Let him know about how you feel and if he loves you, he will stop cheating if he is. It could be that he changed his ways and he is not cheating.

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How can you forgive ? If you can't forget ??

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i forgive but never forget its just the way i am :/
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If you don't. Make him horny ..... Then that's. the problem
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nope

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Tell him that you love him a lot and that your afraid to lose him. Say it a lot. That way he won't have a chance to look at any other girl. I know I made a mistake on that :/

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i have
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And how would he react to it?
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