Get it layered, and stylists have scissors that thin it out a certain way. Whatever you do, do NOT use harsh chemicals. They strip off the shiny coating on your hair, making it look dull and dirty, even when it's not.
appreciate it..I used to feel the same way. to iron it was a big production and if i wore it down it took lots of products to control it . years later my hair is not thick like it used to be, but now I wish it was.