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What do you do if you can't talk to your boyfriend because of he will think of you? And is that normal?

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overtaker

Are u afraid to talk to him bcz u think he won't like u the way u are? If u can't be yourself with your bf, then what's the point in dating him? U'll never know what he'll think of u until u show him who u really are. :) I say, be yourself, if he doesnt like u for u, that's his loss. U can always find another guy.

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That is a VERY good point!
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But I think I will do something stupid and look like a dork.
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I have that problem too sometimes -.- But everyone does dorky stuff once in a while. U can't avoid that. :) I'm sure your bf has done some dorky things in the past. Try not worrying about it so much and you'll be fine. :D
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Thank you soooooo much. You are awesome. :)
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But is it normal?
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thx :) u r awesome too :D
Yeah, i think everyone can have that problem sometimes, don't worry about it :)
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This will depend on whether you cannot talk to him due to communication problem or because you had arguments and that you are talking to each other. If it is because of a misunderstanding, it would be good that you figure out what cause the trouble between the two parties. Even when he caused the problem and he is not ready to apologize, you can oversee that and communicate to him. Make sure to discuss the matter but do not make it like you blaming one partner about the problem.

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I can communicate him but I'm shy. Is that normal?
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Well if you think he thinks bad things about you then you shouldn't be with him because you should always be yourself & not change for anyone they should like you for who you are. Just like overtaker said.. He isn't the one to be with if he doesn't like you for who you are if your scared he thinks bad things about you...

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I'm just shy to talk to him that's all. Is that normal?
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