Yes. You should marry him. Please don't worry about what others may think. Things are different theses days. There are all sorts of relationships that years ago would have been frowned on... Interracial, same sex, cougars, ect, so if thats what concerns you have no worries.... If you are both in love ..... Then marry the man! You might let the best thing in your life slip by if your insecurities are about what others may say! I say this from exp. 19 years difference here! Good luck!
down deep I guess it depends on the motives of marriage on both sides... 20 years doesn't really tell a ratio either... some men past a certain age enter into a second childhood and want to start fresh... some men want a very young girl so they can "finish raising" their wife... you have to ask, what is making this 20 year older man interested in you, what hobbies and interests do you hold in common... if you have a long list then it looks hopeful
If it's true love, girl! Don't let anyone bring you down. Love is love and nothing can stop that. If your man is everything you want and he treats you perfectly, I'd say go for it. You're an adult and you can make your decisions and no one can tell you not to! Good luck!
It's simple... If you are thinking of getting married you should see everything.. Marrying an old women can't be good for you... If someone is 5 to 7 years older it's not a big deal but 20 is heck of a lot.... Well Love can't be involved because a normal person cannot think of getting in true love with a person who is 20 years older than you... If it makes you happy and don't have problem in it... you can.... Make your choice...
I think at 19 you should wait. I'm sure you're smart and mature and all of that, but you're just a baby at 19. Your brain hasn't even finished growing all the way until you turn about 25. I think it's smarter to wait until then. What's a few more years to wait when you're talking about spending THE REST OF YOUR LIFE with this person anyway. I see no problem with the 20 year age difference by the way, I'm just concerned about ANYONE marrying anyone else at such a young age.
I married a man 10 years older than me. For the first 14 years things were great but now Im noticing that I still want to get up and go and live life to the fullest but he would rather take it easy and stay home and live more conservatively. So sometimes this can cause disagreements.