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Why does he do this?

there is a boy in my class, we always annoyed each other, and I had a crush on him, but now I don't. he is like super athletic, and gets like perfect grades. he is also really popular. now here is where it starts. I will look at him, and he will be staring into my eyes, with this type of relaxed, dreamy gaze. he won't break it, he will hold it. he is really sweet when it's just me and him, but when he is with another friend, they make fun of me, like really badly. but also, that friend told me that he has a crush in me, wants to go to the dance with me....... I'm so confused!!! I thought he liked me! but now he is being a total jerk! and he is so mean! I don't get it! what does this mean? what should I do? I want every answer, don't hesitate, just help.( oh and guys, you might know why he does this.)

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First off, why would you want to date a guy who is mean to you? Whether he's nice to you when you're alone or not. My suggestion, don't waste anymore time on this guy. Find someone who's not afraid to be seen with you, and doesn't make fun of you.

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I never said I wanted to date him!!!!
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You had a crush on him. You did say that.
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Yea..... Had!
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Boys.... :/ some are just hard to understand. Just find another guy

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Did you answer him yet? Maybe he is just embarrassed that he thinks he got turned down.

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No, I didn't believe his friend, and e went all red and blushing, so if he want to go out with me he can ask me himself!
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This guy is just playing games with you. Find another guy this one isn't worth it

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Haha that guy reminds me of myself! Some guys are just like that, that's who he is, there isn't a specific reason. He doesn't realize how he acts when he's with his friends because he hasn't learned how to control his actions, but when it's just you 2 he has no distraction and focused on you. He likes you a lot trust me, YOU just gotta break it to him that is if you really like him too.

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Ya I agree on that!! :)
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Boys now these days, Lol! :P Well if he has a crush on you an all I guess you kinda should go to the dance but if you don't really want to or not ready to do that stuff you could just tell him and hopefully he would understand ? Maybe he's mean to you..cause he does not know what his friends think of you!!? Or he's really being a jerk!! I think he's sweet what you typed an all and I would at least give him a chance to take you to the dance? I wish you the best of luck! May god bless u! :)

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If he likes you and is nice to you when it's just you guys, and he gets all mean n stuff when he with his friends maybe he's just giving into peer pressure or he gets embarrassed? Ya never know for sure with guys.

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