You need to do what you feel is right, no matter, what he acts like. Abortion is wrong and i am 100% for you to keep it. If anything put the baby up for adoption. you need a stable home for a child, and if he wont help, i hope and strongly suggest you get help from family. people who will be supportive of you. you made this baby together, yes at a young age, but now you both need to grow up quicker than you planned because a new life is involved.
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tell his stupid ass to wear rubber next time an keep it!!
It was too small/too big and the swimmers worked their way around
Too thin of material
No spermicide used in/on the rubber
Manufacturing defect - it didn't break, but there still might've been a thin spot or tiny hole.
You're just going to have to face the consequences. And don't abort. If you don't want to abort, than don't do it. It sounds like he just wants the way way out.
Too bad for him
Have your baby
Do the right thing!
Ok first of all, you are fifteen. The fact that I'm even reading is just terrible. But I suggest that if anything, you should have the baby and give it up for adoption. You don't want to kill a new possible life and fifteen is to young and you need to focus on school and such.
no matter what abortion needs to be out of the question , the same thing happened to me when i was 18 and it was a bad decision on my part taking the next step but then i look at my baby girl and think i got her out of that so in my opinion it was the best thing that happened but since your only 15 u need to keep adoption in your thoughts.
It is your body, and your decision. He was against abortion UNTIL he realized he couldn't handle the responsibility of parenthood. But that's his fault, not yours or the child's. You need to research abortion, understand the process and what you would go through during the procedure. It isn't as simple as flipping a switch - your body is going through a lot of hormone changes right now, and the disruption can cause you problems, including severe depression.
Then you need to research other alternatives - keeping and raising the child, adoption, or a family foster (where say your aunt & uncle raise the child until you are old enough and responsible enough.) Consider them all, including abortion. But don't let your boyfriend's fears make the decision for you. Don't let him force you to make a decision you don't want to make.
And you really should be having this discussion with your parents.
BTW, I hate to break it to you, but you are a minor, and you are pregnant. Your options are to 1) talk to your parents and get them on board now, or 2) wait until they notice and deal with the consequences. Personally I recommend #1. Just talk to one at a time, first whoever will be easier to talk to.
1) How do you plan to support yourself? You're not an emancipated teen. How do you plan to go to school and work AND take care of the baby?
2) So, you turn 16 and move out... then what? Your family will have to find out you're pregnant at some point. You can't hide it forever. So you're stuck in the same position as you are now.
3) If you are really scared of your family, then you need to talk to your conselor at school. They will help you. Or talk to your doctor about it.
Just suck it up and go talk to your mom. You really, really need to. Regardless of how embarrassed you feel, you're now stuck in this situation and you NEED your mother. Get it done now, before you have to also handle the fallout from hiding such a thing from them.
Good luck girl. Just relax and don't panic. It's happened, you just gotta make the best decisions for you and your baby from now on.
How about talking to your parents!
Don't have an abortion! You can place the baby up for adoption, but you really need to talk with your parents
Abortion is murder and you shouldn't have it I suggest you have it and put it up for adoption 15 is too young to have a child an raise it with no father you need to go to school and get a higher education so you can go to college and get a good
Job to help support your family in the future like other family members such as uncle aunts you're a kid you make mistakes and I hope you figure this all out :) it's a person too!
i think that he's being realistic ... not abortion of coarse but adoption maybe ... What will you provide for your poor baby , you don't have a job , you don't have a career and quite frankly with the baby you're lucky just to finish high school ... you're the mom and he's the dad ... only 8% of teen relationships survive so if you think it'll be happy ever after dream on because at the end of the day if you guys break up u'll be the single mom ... you guys are kids and how are you suppose to provide for a kid and believe me nowadays kids are very expensive ... you will not give your child a chance in life - don't be selfish and think about the baby .
abortion should be out of the picture. boyfriend needs to grow up and step up to the plate. if he don't, kick him to the curb.
If the baby is too much in your life, (I personally think it would be, with you still in high school.) Im only 2 years younger than you, but I would give it up for adoption. Its too much for you to handle at such a young age, but so many people all around the world have trying to get pregnant for years. Giving them the gift of your own child might be hard, but thats the choice you pay for having sex at such a young age. :)
Why the h3ll does anyone not think of adoption??!!!?!?!/!
Whatever you decide, understand that no matter what he promises now, statistics say it's unlikely that he will there for you & your baby for the long haul. Sadly, this happens all the time. You're really on your own in this matter unless he suddenly tells you, clearly - "Hey, you know what - I want this baby afterall." This is what your decision should be based on, only - you being on your own. And there's no turning back, whether you keep your baby or not. You need to be clear with him re all your decisions, & your future life, so he doesn't have regrets or make unfair demands. You too.
Do what your heart tells u I say keep it because I'm against abortion because maybe that baby could've been the president or a superstar u never know
Abortion is pretty much murder
WTF ARE YOU DOING THAT AT 15!!!
Just keep it. You ARE the mother. You WILL have to go through the pain. So you should get it
Watch the movie October Baby, it is very deep and emotional and about the subject, and I'm SURE it will help you make the right decision
You want to make an informed decision on what to do ... Then do some research about HOW abortions are performed. If that doesn't help you make up your mind ... Nothing will. I caution you though, the images you may see will be graphic. But, I truly believe if every teen watched the process ... They would think twice about having unprotected sex ... Or at least increasing precautions.
If you want it, keep it! I personally think you should anyways, but just because he would rather not have it doesn't mean you should get an abortion. He chose to have sex, he needs to learn that he has to grow up and become a parent. Him getting upset every time you bring it up? That's going to have to change. You can't just Not talk about it. You just have to sit down with him and have a really serious conversation. Good luck!
abortion, you are simply not ready. you are a baby yourself, how do you think you will raise a baby? kids are a lot of work and need constant love and affection, you don't want to put that burden on your parents do you? I love kids but even at 25 years old I know that I'm not ready to have a kid so, for 1 thing I'm smart about sexual intercourse and 2 if it did happen to me at my age I would consider having a baby but if I was 15, hell no. in the end it is your life. do with it what you will. good luck
P.S. please PLEASE KEEP THE BABY!!! HE/SHE WILL THANK YOU FOR IT!! SPEND A COUPLE MONTHS OF YOUR LONG LIFE IN DISCOMFORT AND SAVE YOUR BABIES LIFE!
Why are you that young and pregnant?!? Have you ever heard of protection?!?! Plus keep the baby.....abortion is stopping the poor kids life.
Keep the child and if your parents can't support you I can guarantee there are different places that will help you supply your baby with what he/she needs. It doesn't matter if he doesn't want it my bio dad didnt want me and now I have a real man for a father who stepped up to the plate when my bio wouldn't so don't worry it'll hurt the baby keep as calm an collected. also if you have trouble at school about it try online school it's the same stuff with less drama :)
I dabbled in every possible perspective when i got pregnant as a young adult.Think about how you for sure feel about this new life that is growing in you.Talk with your parents about how you feel.Ifyou keep the baby,and your boyfriend isnt supportive,leave him.in the end most mothers are the backbone of the family.Next,read non-stop about infants and how to be calm to be prepared if your baby cries alot.Prepare for everything.Whatever age,being a parent is always a crash course because no one child is the same.All you can do is prepare for whatever may happen.Dont let yourself drop out.Get a job, so the taxes you end up paying,help pay for those government programs to help single parents with low incomes until you can get a career.Think really long about about if you think your ready for all the things being a parent requires..money,patience,endless love,compassion,maturity,a level mind. So talk with mom n pops about how you will provide for your child, if your parents care about you in sure they'll help..given you show you can be mature and take on being a mom.Do what you think your ready for and what will make you happy.
Well, keep the baby, dump your bf. His attitude is not healthy for you or your future family if you have one.
Life is sacred to God, and he views even an embryo as a distinct, living being. About God, King David was inspired to write: “Your eyes saw even the embryo of me.” (Psalm 139:16) God stated that a person would be called to account for injuring an unborn child. So, in his eyes, killing an unborn child is murder.—Exodus 20:13; 21:22, 23.
What, though, if an emergency situation at the time of childbirth forces a couple to choose between letting the mother live and the baby die or vice versa? In that case, the couple would have to decide which life to try to save.
do what you want, the fetus is in your body
If you're really serious about not having an abortion you can always go full term, deliver the baby and then put it up for adoption. painful as it will be, keeping the baby's best interest at heart is #1. ive known girls who have gotten an abortion because of pressure from others, not fully agreeing but going along with it. they arent the same after.
keep the baby no matter what happen... many couples want to have a baby but they are not that lucky to have 1. but you... you have 2 be thankful even though that is not planed...
Don't Abort The Baby And You Do Need To Talk to your Parents and Your Doctor and Its Not Like You Planned It Besides That These Things Do Happen And A Baby Is A Gift From God A Gift that 2 People Who Wanna Be with Each Other Made with a little Help From God Of Course But Like I Said Before Its Not Like You Had Planned To Get Pregnant But I Do Think Its Wonderful That You Have Created a life Although Its Not Exactly Something You Were wanting to happen Until You were Older N Married But Please Talk To Your Parents And Tell Them You Didn't Mean To Make A Baby But You Love It So Much Already Without even Seeing It And Its Ok You Should Think About Keeping It But Also Like Everyone Else Said You Can Also Do A Family Foster ik how that is And Its Not Bad Depending on your family but Your Parents Will Love You Either Way and I Know You Think You Can Move Out After the baby is born But You Can't If Your Going To Move Out You HAVE To Do It BEFORE The Baby Is Born Otherwise they can call the Police and you can be counted as a run away Because as long as your Pregnant Your Considered In The Eyes Of The Law An Adult But As Long as your pregnant your an adult
15? If you were 18 id say keep it. Dont do abortion, give it up for adoption so later you can have the option of having a normal family with a man you meet and love later.
Keep It!Your The One Carrying It Not Him!!
Shoulda wrapped it. If he gets upset, too bad. Abortions are dangerous, and he should've been more careful and wrapped it.
Keep the baby and I advise not seeing him. I suppose you'll have to file for child support. I hope you also stay in school and prepare for the baby.
Keep your baby. Honestly, you're the one who is carrying the baby and will give birth to him/her. If you and your boyfriend were "doing it" and got pregnant by an accident its your boyfriends fault for "doing it" if he doesn't want a child.
do what feels right if you think you will be able to look after the baby I personally don't think you should keep it as you are only 15 you have a whole life ahead of you you need to go to university college studying go travelling a baby will stop you from all these opotunitys don't feel bad for an abortion as whatever you choose you know it's the right thing good luck xxx
We know its hard but if u want the baby kept it because it is your baby but maybe once the baby is born he might realise that he does like the baby
When someone has previously said 'Get an abortion' or 'put it up for adoption' you know what you do? You throw that suggestion out the window. You are telling yourself that isn't what you want to do, without realizing it. Your actions & body language *In this case, the way your holding a conversation, tell everyone what is really going on without you having to say. So here is what I am getting from you; Abortion; Your totally against it, and your not even considering (Not a bad thing). Adoption; Your scared you won't be able to have babies later, or what you will regret it. This tells me, that what YOU want, is to keep the baby, but because you don't think you will have support from your family, and because the most significant person to you in this situation (The dad), doesn't support it, you feel as if you are being forced to consider all these options you don't want for yourself.
I suggest talking with parents and close family about your decision. I personally believe abortion is wrong and I would never recommend it to anyone.Abortion is killing an unborn child...there are so many women out there that can not have children so to see someone that can but yet wants to abort it I believe is wrong. Your boyfriend should have used protection. If he would stay with you no matter what he wouldn't mind your decision. If you would change your mind about keeping the baby think about adoption. Don't get me wrong raising a child is hard but if you focus on yourself and the baby and school work etc things are possible for anyone. Do what make you feel right and talk with your parents etc
Women look to abortions for a variety of reasons. Regardless of the situation, the decision to terminate a pregnancy deliberately is not an easy one. It is often intensely painful and there are consequences. Many women who had an induced abortion revealed that they felt bad after the abortion and felt “guilt” over the procedure. Many women felt that they were ‘unable to forgive themselves.’ There are many young women that still have abortions, and they often come under intense pressure to have them. Parents, a mate, or well-meaning friends may encourage abortion but this can lead to a hasty, ill-informed decision. After the procedure have ended, many women often have feelings of pronounced guilt, sadness, and regret.” Many women are angered by grief at the loss of a child, as well as psychological harm of knowing she killed her child is often devastating.The truth is that the unborn child is a living person while in the womb.
